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Online Consultation - https://myhealing.tilda.ws Free Channel Resources - https://t.me/codeA8/1026 Sprint "The Mom Who Built a House" https://t.me/codeA8/1205 - Intensive Course Terms on page 29 of the Workbook If you've ever felt drawn to someone who's clearly unsuitable—more than to someone kind and reliable—this broadcast will explain why. And it's not about stupidity. We'll explore the mechanics of partner selection: why we choose the familiar over the good. Why we're drawn to emotionally unavailable, cold, and controlling people. What is obsessive repetition? Why are emotional swings of "now he loves you, now he's gone" more powerful than steady love? And why is "chemistry" often not compatibility, but the recognition of an old wound? The main connection of the ether: emotional coldness in childhood seeks a cold partner, abandonment seeks an unstable one, suppression seeks a controlling one. Real cases (names have been changed), including a male one. The "Recognize Attraction" practice is the skill of taking one breath between being overwhelmed by chemicals and the old choice. And answers to the main questions: will I only like "boring" people now? How can I stop choosing the same way? Is it too late to change my personality type after 50? 🧩 Part of the intensive course "Dad, Mom, Me – The Architecture of the Inner Family." ⚠️ Informational and educational format, does not replace therapy. Online Consultation - https://myhealing.tilda.ws Free Channel Resources - https://t.me/codeA8/1026 TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 "I don't believe in words anymore, only in actions" - why this mature phrase is actually a trap 1:53 Feelings come first: what the psyche does before words and actions 2:37 Why it's bad to believe in actions, not promises 4:06 Why actions deceive just as often as words 6:10 The paradox of deprivation: proper care that stifles 8:08 A family without beatings and hunger, where no one simply asked "how are you" 8:37 A virtuoso of actions, a disabled person of emotions 9:43 "Should I no longer help my loved ones?" — the answer isn't what you expect 10:27 Caring as a way to silence your own panic 11:35 Love or fear: how to catch yourself red-handed 12:48 The "no" test: a pity or a catastrophe 13:55 "I know what you need" — this is grandiose narcissism 15:24 Why pry into feelings if they're unbearable 16:29 A castle without a foundation: why vows and stamps don't hold 18:43 An old guard named shame and the Soviet "shame on you" 19:45 "I feel nothing, only emptiness" — it can be cured 21:24 The body doesn't lie, even when the head is silent 23:30 "I gave it to him — he took it and left": it's not about sex 25:07 A man comes not for the body, but for acceptance 28:30 Is a man a child at his mother's breast? Analyzing the Accusation 29:53 "Saving" and "accepting" are opposite verbs 32:48 "I accepted everything, but he left" - acceptance or patience 36:02 Where can you find acceptance if you weren't taught it? 39:44 What to do tonight: one question for the body 43:37 "I want to live with a man, but I don't want sex" - what does this mean? DISCLAIMER The information in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional psychological or psychotherapeutic care, diagnosis, or treatment. Viewing or listening to this content does not establish a therapeutic "psychologist-client" relationship. If you are experiencing psychological difficulties, experiencing a crisis, or need professional support, please contact a licensed psychologist, psychotherapist, or other qualified mental health professional in your country. Legal Issues: Any reference to legal matters (divorce, child custody, protection from violence, property disputes, etc.) does not constitute legal advice or recommendations for action. For qualified legal assistance, please contact licensed attorneys and lawyers in your country specializing in family law and civil rights protection. Examples and Cases: All stories, examples, and situations used in the podcast are generalized, composite, or fictitious for illustrative purposes. Any resemblance to actual people, events, or circumstances is entirely coincidental and unintentional. The video does not contain any mention of any specific person and should not be used to imply that any specific person suffers from narcissism. Linking to or reposting this video is NOT permitted, especially to support the creators' assertion that they believe or support the claim that a specific person is a narcissist. This would constitute unauthorized misuse of the video and the information contained therein.