«Не знаю, чего хочу»: место внутри, которое заняла мать

Free Test "Where Do You End?" — https://t.me/codeA8/1069 Online Consultation - https://myhealing.tilda.ws Free Channel Resources - https://t.me/codeA8/1026 "Places Where There's More of Her Than You" — a live broadcast about merging with the mother. About the places within where the question "What do I want?" is answered with silence, guilt, or panic. In this broadcast: — Why "I don't know what I want" isn't laziness, but a place occupied by the maternal figure; — Four signs of merging: her mood is your weather, an internal call to your mother, "we" instead of "I," desires based on others' eyes; — Bowen's Differentiation: How to remain yourself around a loved one; — Four stories, including a man's: "I learned not to need, so as not to be consumed"; — Practice on the "Where Do You End" broadcast: finding the boundary of merging based on your body's reaction; — The seven most difficult questions: Is this selfishness? How do I separate if my mother is dead? What do I do with my mother's resentment and guilt? For women aged 40–55 and men who grew up with an anxious or consuming mother. Without uncovering the trauma: only recognition and support. Led by a clinical psychologist (EMDR, IFS, schema therapy). Free test "Where Do You End?" — in the Telegram channel. https://t.me/codeA8/1069 Alex Hunt | PTSD, C-PTSD, Narcissistic Abuse | Online Consultations Online Consultation - https://myhealing.tilda.ws Free Channel Resources - https://t.me/codeA8/1026 TIMESTAMPS 0:00 What do you want? If the silence inside isn't emptiness, it's occupied space. 1:39 Desire is a muscle. Who stopped it from working? 2:03 "You'll want it or you'll change your mind": how a child learns to want what's their mother's 4:29 Merger: two apartments without a wall between them 6:40 Test: Is your mother's mood your weather? 8:26 Why do you say "we" instead of "I"? 9:59 Bowen and differentiation: staying true to yourself with mom 13:27 Rebellion against mom is also fusion, only with a negative sign 14:39 Case: She's 47 and can't choose a vacation for herself 16:04 Burgundy curtains: 20 years of someone else's life in her own bedroom 18:15 "Seismograph": Half a century as mom's meteorologist 20:04 Safe man: icy separateness is the memory of mom 22:14 Practice: awakening the organ that can want 27:09 Is wanting for yourself selfishness? 28:31 Mom died. Is separation too late? 30:19 Resentment as a Remote Control for an Adult Daughter 35:54 3,000 km from Mom – Why Distance Doesn't Work DISCLAIMER The information in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional psychological or psychotherapeutic care, diagnosis, or treatment. Viewing or listening to this content does not establish a therapeutic psychologist-client relationship. If you are experiencing psychological difficulties, experiencing a crisis, or need professional support, please consult a licensed psychologist, psychotherapist, or other qualified mental health professional in your country. Legal Issues: Any reference to legal matters (divorce, child custody, protection from violence, property disputes, etc.) does not constitute legal advice or a recommendation for action. For qualified legal assistance, please contact licensed attorneys and lawyers in your country specializing in family law and the protection of civil rights. Examples and Case Studies: All stories, examples, and situations used in the podcast are generalized, composite, or fictitious for illustrative purposes. Any resemblance to actual people, events, or circumstances is purely coincidental and unintentional. The video does not contain any references to any specific person and should not be used to imply that any specific person suffers from narcissism. Linking to or reposting this video is NOT permitted, especially to support the creators' assertion that they believe or support the claim that a specific person is a narcissist. Doing so would constitute unauthorized misuse of the video and the information contained therein.