№101. Токсичные родственники. Как выйти из системы. Родство - не дает права на насилие.

Power Cycles (3 free videos about the program): https://meleshkod.ru/kurs Our Telegram channel: https://t.me/meleshkod_ru TIME CODES: 00:00 Introduction 04:18 Guilt after Distancing 10:26 Systemic Toxicity 17:01 Difficulty Limiting Contact 22:15 Relative Playing the Victim 25:32 Boundaries Without Breaking 34:45 Protecting Children from Toxic Grandparents 40:11 Why Distance Makes Things Worse 43:41 Forgive and Never Go Back 46:39 New Life After Family 49:30 Summary ABOUT THE PODCAST: In this episode, we explore what happens to someone trying to leave a toxic family system: why guilt, horror, emptiness, and inner rift arise after the first boundaries are crossed. We discuss how to distinguish a normal family conflict from systemic toxicity, what types of boundaries truly help protect oneself, and why a toxic relative often plays the victim when they lose control. We also discuss how to protect children from the destructive influence of family, why distance sometimes makes things harder rather than easier, and how forgiveness is possible without returning to the old system. The main idea of ​​the episode is that kinship does not give the right to violence, and the path to recovery begins with regaining psychological safety and the right to live one's own life. - Podcast Authors Dmitry Meleshko Pavel Bolvinov