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Online Consultation - https://myhealing.tilda.ws Free Channel Resources - https://t.me/codeA8/1026 Sprint "The Mom Who Built a House" https://t.me/codeA8/1205 - Intensive Course Terms on page 29 of the Workbook If you've ever felt drawn to someone who's clearly unsuitable—more than to someone kind and reliable—this broadcast will explain why. And it's not about stupidity. We'll explore the mechanics of partner selection: why we choose the familiar over the good. Why we're drawn to emotionally unavailable, cold, and controlling people. What is obsessive repetition? Why are emotional swings of "now he loves you, now he's gone" more powerful than steady love? And why is "chemistry" often not compatibility, but the recognition of an old wound? The main connection of the ether: emotional coldness in childhood seeks a cold partner, abandonment seeks an unstable one, suppression seeks a controlling one. Real cases (names have been changed), including a male one. The "Recognize Attraction" practice is the skill of taking one breath between being overwhelmed by chemicals and the old choice. And answers to the main questions: will I only like "boring" people now? How can I stop choosing the same way? Is it too late to change my personality type after 50? 🧩 Part of the intensive course "Dad, Mom, Me – The Architecture of the Inner Family." ⚠️ Informational and educational format, does not replace therapy. Online consultation - https://myhealing.tilda.ws Free Channel Resources - https://t.me/codeA8/1026 TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 You can learn the seven signs of a narcissist and still wake up with them in the same mortgage 01:09 Who really built the room with the sign "for a narcissist" 02:37 The frying pan is hot - but why do you still burn yourself? 03:29 Attraction runs through old wiring and doesn't ask if he's healthy 04:46 The language of abuse is like a native: why it hurts to be around him, but "feels like home" 07:27 "Why can't I leave" - ​​it's not a question of willpower 08:42 A golden period, then darkness, then crumbs of warmth - and you're hooked 09:37 Casino, dopamine, and a jackpot that never ends It will fall out 11:17 When the body is the first to scream "I can't stand it," before the psyche 12:24 EMDR shrinkage: a technique that reduces dependence on a person 13:10 Shame born not with a partner, but in mom's kitchen 14:27 The "five points" technique: entering a room you were afraid to enter 21:44 Marina, 52: She fell in love not with a man, but with his back looking out the window 26:44 Self-diagnosis: whose "mine" is echoed in the body 31:26 Guilt or responsibility - who really holds the wheel 38:01 Forgiveness is not necessary: ​​why it can be retraumatization 39:49 A girl still rings the doorbell and waits for you to see her DISCLAIMER The information in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. This content is not a substitute for professional psychological or psychotherapeutic care, diagnosis, or treatment. Viewing or listening to this content does not establish a therapeutic psychologist-client relationship. If you are experiencing psychological difficulties, experiencing a crisis, or need professional support, please consult a licensed psychologist, psychotherapist, or other qualified mental health professional in your country. Legal Issues: Any reference to legal matters (divorce, child custody, protection from violence, property disputes, etc.) does not constitute legal advice or a recommendation for action. For qualified legal assistance, please contact licensed attorneys and lawyers in your country specializing in family law and civil rights protection. Examples and Cases: All stories, examples, and situations used in the podcast are generalized, composite, or fictitious for illustrative purposes. Any similarities to actual people, events, or circumstances are entirely coincidental and unintentional. The video does not contain any references to any specific individual and should not be used to imply that any specific individual suffers from narcissism. Linking to or reposting this video is NOT permitted, especially to support the creators' assertion that they believe or support the claim that a specific individual is a narcissist. Doing so would constitute unauthorized misuse of the video and the information contained therein.