【本音トーク】自分を大切にする「罪悪感」が無くなりました!/自己犠牲、自分の人生

[People You Should Cut Ties With] Are You Really Cherished? Love, Codependency, and Relationships    • 【縁を切るべき人】あなたは本当に大切にされてますか?恋愛、共依存、人間関係   -- Life is hard only because you haven't realized it yet. Awareness and learning can change your life. The realizations and lessons I gained as I escaped from rock bottom. By understanding each and every one of these, I finally arrived at the workings of this world. Life is entirely up to you. There's nothing wrong with human emotions. However, allowing negative emotions to persist only brings pain to yourself. I'm talking about this simple way to live a happy life. I hope this video is helpful. -- 🔹 I'm not currently offering advice. My official LINE and Instagram DMs are for direct purchases of art and other items. Please refrain from contacting me with any advice. ーーーーーー Self-Introduction ーーーーーー Born in 1967. My husband passed away at the age of 32. The following year, my younger brother committed suicide. My daughter fell unconscious when she was in fifth grade (she later recovered). My father died, estranged from me, his daughter, and my granddaughter. After years of estrangement with my mother, who suffers from developmental disabilities, I am now living a peaceful and happy life, completely free of past conflicts. [Rock Bottom Period] Continual grief and shock... Depression, depersonalization, various physical ailments, vague symptoms... My whole body was messed up, and my mental health was at its worst. I visited a psychosomatic and psychiatric clinic and tried various medications. Perhaps it was the medication that caused me to develop depersonalization. This led to me taking anti-anxiety medication for about 18 years. I also took the sleeping pill Myslee at the same time. I tapered off and then stopped taking them over the last three years of 2018. Brain tumor and cervical cancer, surgery Ménière's disease from right ear hearing loss Chemical sensitivity --- I create and sell framed hand-drawn illustrations and miscellaneous goods featuring the words I share in my videos. 《minne》 ▪️Word illustrations, everyday cut-out drawings https://minne.com/@hitomebole77 《Instagram》 Word illustrations * Everyday cut-out drawings https://instagram.com/hitomebole_art?... ▪️Official LINE (purchase only) https://lin.ee/IHgXAc3 🔹Comments not accepted Words that are prohibited from displaying according to YouTube guidelines will be hidden. I still watch them, even when they're hidden. #guilt #distance #easelifestyle #mindset #awareness #relationships #parent-childrelationships

[Honest Talk] A tiring life, the causes of continued poor health/human relationships, the distanc...
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[Honest Talk] A tiring life, the causes of continued poor health/human relationships, the distanc...

[Honest Talk] Overcoming life's challenges/Experiences of guidance from the universe/Parents and ...
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[Honest Talk] Overcoming life's challenges/Experiences of guidance from the universe/Parents and ...

I found the answers to my life questions about the workings of this world, my soul's purpose, my ...
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I found the answers to my life questions about the workings of this world, my soul's purpose, my ...

「一人のほうが、よっぽど幸せでした」 熟年同棲を選んだ70代女性が涙で語る“地獄の正体”と、自由な老後をドブに捨てた5つの罠|シニアの再婚事情と「良かれと思って始めた同居」の残酷な現実
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「一人のほうが、よっぽど幸せでした」 熟年同棲を選んだ70代女性が涙で語る“地獄の正体”と、自由な老後をドブに捨てた5つの罠|シニアの再婚事情と「良かれと思って始めた同居」の残酷な現実

[Widowed Single Mother] Reasons for wanting to live a long life / Life experiences
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[Widowed Single Mother] Reasons for wanting to live a long life / Life experiences

【北野武】老後で不幸になる人の99%は、同じ特徴を持っています
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【北野武】老後で不幸になる人の99%は、同じ特徴を持っています

愛情不足で育った人が大人になるとこうなる——誰も教えてくれなかった「育ちの影響」の正体
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愛情不足で育った人が大人になるとこうなる——誰も教えてくれなかった「育ちの影響」の正体

I'm a worthless person. How to recover from disappointment. When you feel depressed, lonely, and ...
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I'm a worthless person. How to recover from disappointment. When you feel depressed, lonely, and ...

「夫婦で月30万円の年金」を誇っていた68歳…税金と保険料で7万円消え、生活費25万円が払えない「黒字のはずが赤字」の衝撃
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「夫婦で月30万円の年金」を誇っていた68歳…税金と保険料で7万円消え、生活費25万円が払えない「黒字のはずが赤字」の衝撃

[Honest Talk] How do you live, how do you want to live? / Based on others, based on yourself / Yo...
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[Honest Talk] How do you live, how do you want to live? / Based on others, based on yourself / Yo...

【保存版】人生は自分の思い通り!「三次元」「宇宙の仕組み」から解説。《講義式》
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【保存版】人生は自分の思い通り!「三次元」「宇宙の仕組み」から解説。《講義式》

Relationships and events are for the "growth of the soul." Understanding this will prevent negati...
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Relationships and events are for the "growth of the soul." Understanding this will prevent negati...

[Honest Talk] My outlook on life with no friends / My life experiences at age 58 / Life scenario
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[Honest Talk] My outlook on life with no friends / My life experiences at age 58 / Life scenario

【静かな復讐】夫に尽くすのをやめた妻が選んだ離婚|ブッダの教え
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【静かな復讐】夫に尽くすのをやめた妻が選んだ離婚|ブッダの教え

Don't chase after those who leave / How to perceive separation (heartbreak, separation...romance,...
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Don't chase after those who leave / How to perceive separation (heartbreak, separation...romance,...

Explained from two perspectives that already exist! The secret to changing your life. 《The workin...
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Explained from two perspectives that already exist! The secret to changing your life. 《The workin...

【99%が見逃している】55歳からの10年が“残酷”な分かれ道。晩年の幸せを約束する暮らしと心の整え方
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【99%が見逃している】55歳からの10年が“残酷”な分かれ道。晩年の幸せを約束する暮らしと心の整え方

人生の苦しさの正体
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人生の苦しさの正体

実は…これが多いと執着されている証拠6選。あなたを監視する人の隠された思いとは?
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実は…これが多いと執着されている証拠6選。あなたを監視する人の隠された思いとは?

[Honest Talk] Looking back at rock bottom. Seeing life from two perspectives. To avoid regrets.
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[Honest Talk] Looking back at rock bottom. Seeing life from two perspectives. To avoid regrets.