Limerence is Obsessive and Traumatic

I found out that my ex was having an affair after he told me that he no longer loved and that he was unhappy. In a matter of days I found out they were talking about starting a family together. The female having fertility treatment they were in such a hurry to have a child just days after they met. They became completely obsessed with each other. The female seduced and manipulated him in a vicious way. He dropped everything for her and everything evolved around her. I filed for divorce and soon after the divorce they married. She was also pregnant. Our marriage was not good but not very bad either. I wonder why he did this, was it a MLC or just a way to leave? My daughter and I are still coping with the trauma and aftermath. Do you have a question for me? Submit here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FA... I try and post three pre-recorded videos each week to answer questions. I receive more than I can answer each week and yet still try to answer all, but they may take a few weeks. If you’d like your questions answered faster, check out my membership, Stand Up and THRIVE!, and get on the waitlist for the next time I open the cart. https://www.theherosspouse.com/course... By submitting a question, you are agreeing to have a response recorded and posted to The Private FB Group as well as the public FB page and YouTube channel. Does your spouse's Midlife Crisis have you lost, confused, feeling crazy...? Do you need to understand what's going on? Enroll in my FREE course "Understanding Midlife Crisis." https://www.theherosspouse.com/course... Are you unsure or wondering if your spouse is in a Midlife Crisis? Take the Quiz: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/qui...