Fast-moving, intense, limerent affair? It’s not love! It’s toxic, possessive and controlling!

I have a question about behaviors in general in MLC! Is it normal for a midlife spouse to not get an alienator until a year or so later? And then to get engaged to her after two months--when he's still married? I just wasn’t sure if maybe these weren’t normal MLC behaviors--not that MLC is normal. He's calling her his wife already. This hurts and makes me feel like hope is gone. 💬 Do you have a question for me? Submit it here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FA... If you have an MLC question for me, I love answering your MLC questions! By submitting a question, you are agreeing to have a response recorded and posted to The Private FB Group as well as the public FB page and YouTube channel. 🎓 Need clarity on what’s happening? Enroll in my FREE course, Understanding Midlife Crisis: https://www.theherosspouse.com/course... 🧠 Not sure if your spouse is in MLC? Take the quiz: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/qui... 🤝 Interested in 1-on-1 coaching? Read about how I work and check my availability here: https://www.theherosspouse.com/coaching 🪷Are you interested in meeting other Forward Moving Spouses face-to-face where we can talk about Midlife Crisis, Standing, detachment, healing… Check out my membership Stand Up and THRIVE! We meet 4 times each week on Zoom and Stand Up and THRIVE! Includes Detach & THRIVE, my online course. This is a self-directed 8-week course going over Detachment in 5 modules focusing on Mindfulness as the main tool towards becoming detached. https://www.theherosspouse.com/course...