【親の味方を頑張りすぎた人】本来子どもは守られる側。望むように甘えられず、心を見つめてもらえず、期待を背負って生きてきた人へ。

Hello, good evening! It's Kii here. This time, I talked about "people who try too hard to be their mother's ally." It's not that "even if it applies to you even a little bit, it's bad." I hope that by looking at how often and to what extent it applies to you, you can gain some self-understanding and objective perspective. ★ Post-recording talk    • 【共依存から共に自立へ】心地いい距離感を問い直す〜親孝行は3歳で終了〜   My initial goal is to upload videos on one theme per week. Please support me by liking and subscribing! ♪ --- 🙌 Small sharing to make YouTube a safe and fun place A Google account is required to like and subscribe. YouTube likes are designed so that neither the sender nor the viewer can see who clicked the like button. ⚪︎ If you're concerned about your private life being exposed, don't worry. -- (The same goes for likes on comments; neither the sender nor I can see who clicked them.) Only I can see your account name when you subscribe. Your account name will be displayed publicly in the comments section, so we recommend changing it if you're using your real name. *Please refrain from replying to other people's advice here. *Please also refrain from asking for individual advice. If you'd like to share your thoughts but don't want to share them in the comments, please send them to our official LINE account! (Only I can read our official LINE account. The link is below.) --- Finally... Everyone lives with their own backgrounds and circumstances that only they know. With limited space and time, it's not possible to provide information and consideration that's perfect for everyone, but I hope these posts will be a useful companion in your daily life. -- Summary of Current Activities -- 📙 Books 🆕 "A Book to Ease a Troublesome Mind" Osama Bunko 🆕 https://amzn.asia/d/buOgNJS "Say Goodbye to a Troublesome Mind" KADOKAWA https://amazon.co.jp/dp/4048966235 "Start by Saying 'I Love Myself'" Yamato Publishing https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/4804762876 🌉 Individual Consultation and Support http://ikiyas u.com/2024/02/01/personalsupport/ 📱 Social Media ・Instagram   / kiitanuma   ・X   / kiitanuma_tanu   ・Threads https://www.threads.net/@kiitanuma ・Official LINE https://lin.ee/43vkdy6 (I read your vents and messages) Thank you for your hard work today. Thank you as always. --- #Relationships #Stress #Psychology #Self-Esteem #Work #Love #Communication

[Taking on too much] "I have to do it," "I have to be able to do everything," worrying too much, ...
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[Taking on too much] "I have to do it," "I have to be able to do everything," worrying too much, ...

[Reality is not black and white] The ability to accept facts that are not convenient for you. And...
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[Reality is not black and white] The ability to accept facts that are not convenient for you. And...

Healing From Religious Trauma: A Survivor's Roadmap with Tia Levings [381]
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Healing From Religious Trauma: A Survivor's Roadmap with Tia Levings [381]

母に会うと疲れる。それ、優しさじゃなくて自己犠牲だった【公認心理師が解説】
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母に会うと疲れる。それ、優しさじゃなくて自己犠牲だった【公認心理師が解説】

Toxic parents who deprive their children of being children - Parent-child role reversal [brain x ...
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Toxic parents who deprive their children of being children - Parent-child role reversal [brain x ...

【アダルトチルドレンと親】幼少期の体験と人間関係の悩みは繋がっている。親の関わり方が残す課題とその抜け出し方
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【アダルトチルドレンと親】幼少期の体験と人間関係の悩みは繋がっている。親の関わり方が残す課題とその抜け出し方

[Emotional neglect] Parental indifference to or lack of involvement with the "emotional aspects."...
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[Emotional neglect] Parental indifference to or lack of involvement with the "emotional aspects."...

決して許してはならない5つの行動
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決して許してはならない5つの行動

[They're kids inside] Having a mentally immature family member is a problem... Explaining why the...
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[They're kids inside] Having a mentally immature family member is a problem... Explaining why the...

人が怖いと思う本当の理由|実は「人見知り」ではありません【克服法も解説】
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人が怖いと思う本当の理由|実は「人見知り」ではありません【克服法も解説】

[Must see] 7 ways to deal with people who are in a bad mood and have a low mental age, or who are...
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[Must see] 7 ways to deal with people who are in a bad mood and have a low mental age, or who are...

「世界は黒人にうんざり?」黒人2人が語る“黒人疲れ”
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「世界は黒人にうんざり?」黒人2人が語る“黒人疲れ”

【消耗する人との関わり方】自分かもしれない時/近しい人との距離感
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【消耗する人との関わり方】自分かもしれない時/近しい人との距離感

[Eye-opening] In fact... this will make you mentally stronger. 7 surprising ways to become more r...
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[Eye-opening] In fact... this will make you mentally stronger. 7 surprising ways to become more r...

[For Those Who Struggle With Self-Blame] How to Stop Blaming Yourself for Everything: Loosening U...
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[For Those Who Struggle With Self-Blame] How to Stop Blaming Yourself for Everything: Loosening U...

Women with developmental disorders and their mothers [Developmental disorders/ADHD/ASD]
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Women with developmental disorders and their mothers [Developmental disorders/ADHD/ASD]

【高濱正伸】子育てにおけるNG行為/過保護は「残忍な行い」である/東大生の親の教育法/夫婦間での「やってはいけない」【安達裕哉】
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【高濱正伸】子育てにおけるNG行為/過保護は「残忍な行い」である/東大生の親の教育法/夫婦間での「やってはいけない」【安達裕哉】

[Why intimacy is scary / Avoidant attachment] You can't be yourself and create a relationship whe...
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[Why intimacy is scary / Avoidant attachment] You can't be yourself and create a relationship whe...

[I wasn't a child enough] Understanding the influence of the environment and myself, empathizing ...
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[I wasn't a child enough] Understanding the influence of the environment and myself, empathizing ...

毒親と悪口愚痴の聞き役の子。生きづらさの原因は、親の親役、旦那役を押し付けられてしまったからかもしれません。子供を吐口にしないで。世のお母さん、お父さんにも知ってほしい。
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毒親と悪口愚痴の聞き役の子。生きづらさの原因は、親の親役、旦那役を押し付けられてしまったからかもしれません。子供を吐口にしないで。世のお母さん、お父さんにも知ってほしい。