ІГРИ, В ЯКІ ГРАЮТЬ ЛЮДИ У СТОСУНКАХ || Ігор Забута і Юлія Зорій

GAMES THAT PEOPLE PLAY IN RELATIONSHIPS Manipulations that destroy relationships ℹ️ This is what presenter Yulia Zorii and Ihor Zabuta, psychotherapist, talked about today: ✔️ Are there any relationships without games and Spanish passions? ✔️ What scenarios from parental relationships do adult children bring into their lives? ✔️ The need for recognition - what is it and why is it so difficult to talk about it with a partner? ✔️ What symptom can manipulations in relationships indicate? ✔️ What is emotional security and how does it affect relationships? Subscribe to our channel @onlineterapiya 💙 🌐 Subscribe on social networks: Instagram:   / onlineterapiya_official   TikTok:   / onlineterapiya   Also listen to the OnlineTherapy program on the air of the radio "KrainaFM". Or listen to the podcast https://bit.ly/3RoUjMy #onlinetherapy #psychology #relationships #manipulation #psychologist #relationshippsychology _________________________________________________________________ 00:00 – Announcement 00:44 – What are “games” in relationships 01:24 – Manipulation and the reality of sessions 01:51 – Why without manipulation it is “impossible” for some couples to save a relationship 05:11 – The reality of feelings and facts 06:14 – Resentment has inertia 07:05 – Recognize the script with the help of a partner 07:28 – The risky question “Why are you saying that?” 09:00 – Request instead of accusations 10:05 – Nonviolent communication 12:09 – Scenarios from the parental family 14:12 – The question: “Why am I doing this?” 16:06 – The need for recognition 17:19 – Emotional openness and security 20:57 – The foundation of relationships 21:36 – An example with flowers and hints 23:29 – Scenario 1: “I do this because you do that” 25:03 – Scenario 2: legalizing accusations 27:21 – Exercise: a week without comments 28:35 – The risk of silence 31:32 – Scenario: figuring out relationships in affect 34:09 – Relief from recognition - powerlessness 36:34 – The inner child in relationships 37:35 – The need to be weak 40:26 – Form destroys more than content 42:02 – “You are late” vs. “I was waiting for you” 44:58 – “Grenade” from accusations 49:25 – Three questions for yourself 50:26 – Don’t point at your partner, but turn it on yourself