СТОСУНКИ НЕ ТЕЛЕПАТІЯ: ЧОМУ ДОДУМУВАТИ ШКІДЛИВО? | Антон Клименко та Юлія Зорій

💙Mindly is the largest online psychologist search and work platform in Ukraine. Find your ideal psychologist today! 👉Enter the promo code "online" and get a 10% discount on the first session with any specialist: https://mindlyspace.com/onlineterapiya RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT TELEPATHY: WHY IS IT HARMFUL TO THINK? DOES THE IDEAL PARTNER EXIST? This is what Yulia Zorii and Anton Klymenko, a psychologist, talked about today. ℹ️ Watch the new episode of OnlineTherapy and learn about the following: ✔️ What is the most important thing in a relationship? What are the markers of a great relationship? ✔️ Is there an ideal partner and an ideal relationship? ✔️ How do couples ruin their relationships without even noticing? Overthinking and lack of clarification are among the top enemies. ✔️ What are the main mistakes partners make in relationships? ✔️ A partner does not read minds: how not to lose the one you love? ✔️ When can a relationship still be saved, when it is no longer worth fighting? 🔔Subscribe to our channel @onlineterapiya 🩵 Also listen to programs on the air of radio "KrainaFM". Subscribe to our social networks: Instagram www.instagram.com/onlineterapiya_official TikTok www.tiktok.com/@onlineterapiya Or listen to the podcast https://bit.ly/3RoUjMy ________________________________________________________________ 00:00 Announcement - what awaits you in this issue. 01:20 How did the war affect the number of requests for family therapy? 03:05 What requests do people come to couple therapy with? 04:40 What are the signs of a great relationship? 06:15 Partners complement each other and their values ​​do not conflict. 07:25 Do partners always have common values? 09:00 In a relationship, it is important to understand what is important to you! 10:00 What can be the needs in a relationship? 11:02 If you do not talk about your needs, each person in the couple will have their own "obvious and clear" needs. 12:10 What is the goal in a relationship? 13:20 What are the main mistakes in relationships? 15:00 We were not taught to talk about relationships. But this must be learned. 16:45 Overthinking - how does it destroy relationships? 19:05 The brain cannot exist in a state when there is no answer. 20:10 Overthinking in relationships: examples and instructions on how to do it correctly. 23:10 It is important to clarify everything: a man and a woman can have different views on different states. 24:02 How to clarify correctly so as not to offend? 25:25 Phrases from childhood that affect thinking in adulthood. 28:30 If a man does not want to talk about relationships. 29:45 At the beginning of a relationship, you should also discuss the need for conversations. 30:30 Is there an ideal partner? 32:39 It is impossible to be happy all the time. But in the moment - yes! 37:50 How to understand that a relationship can no longer be saved? 40:00 How the order of a child in the family affects what kind of partner he becomes in his adult relationships. We reveal the research. 40:50 The ideal tandem - the eldest son in one family and the youngest daughter in another. 43:20 The most difficult tandem - each of the partners was the eldest child in their family. 46:50 How to make your relationships more conscious and improve them? 51:15 Types of temperaments in relationships.