Women Need Love And Men Need Respect. That Is One Of The Most Dangerous Things Ever Taught To Women.

Women need love and men need respect. It sounds harmless. It might even sound wise. But I think it is one of the most dangerous ideas ever taught to women in relationships, and here is why. Love is subjective. It can be claimed, performed, and declared while somebody is actively disrespecting you. Respect is observable. It leaves evidence. It shows up in how somebody actually treats you when the candlelit dinner is over and real life begins. 0:00 - Women need love and men need respect. 2:12 - The three types of respect. Most people only know one. 4:15 - The type of respect average men describe is about compliance and obedience. 6:27 - Relational respect which comes with warmth and esteem has to be earned. 8:45 - Men believe you can love someone but NOT respect women 10:57 - Women are taught to look for love rather than respect 14:39 - How he treats is a direct reflection of whether he respects you 16:47 - Love is subjective. Respect leaves evidence. 17:20 - Stop asking does he love me. Start asking does he respect me. 19:08 - Love without respect leads to liberty and exploitation. 21:07 - When you tell a man your highest value is respect. 22:55 - You cannot earn or negotiate respect from someone who has chosen not to give it. 24:29 - Do not beg, barter or negotiate for your dignity and respect. THE INVISIBLE CONTRACTS AUDIT - $49 https://unpunishablewoman.mykajabi.co... The Truth About Money https://unpunishablewoman.mykajabi.co... Read the full essay on Substack https://unpunishablewoman.substack.com LISTEN Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5bSqlwc... Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast... FOLLOW Substack: https://unpunishablewoman.substack.com YouTube:    / @unpunishablewoman   TikTok:   / unpunishablewoman   Instagram:   / unpunishablewoman   LinkedIn:   / abentildhue   Brand partnerships, speaking, media and advisory enquiries: [email protected] women need love men need respect, love vs respect relationships, does he respect me, women and respect in relationships, invisible contracts relationships, how he treats you, women evaluating relationships, relational respect earned, women love blind spot, respect leaves evidence, men respect women love, women taught wrong lens relationships, zero tolerance disrespect, you cannot earn respect, love without respect women

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