The Femininity Crisis Is Real. They Just Won't Tell You Who Created It.

Every few years somebody announces there is a femininity crisis. And the first question I always ask is - according to whom? Because before we can work out whether femininity is in crisis, we need to answer a much more important question first. Who gets to define femininity? And who benefits from that definition? 0:00 - There is a femininity crisis apparently. But according to whom? 2:25 - The invisible contract that says femininity must be universally legible 4:27 - Men don't like to submit but want women to believe its a good thing 6:51 - How childhood prepares women for submission in the workplace 9:14 - Dating coaches and femininity gurus 21:00 - Passport Bros and their definition of femininity 23:22 - The attraction isn't femininity. It's the power asymmetry. 25:56 - White femininity is not universal femininity 27:00 - Every generation gets told there is a femininity crisis. EXPLORE THE WORK The Invisible Contracts Audit - $49 https://unpunishablewoman.mykajabi.co... The Truth About Money For Single Women https://unpunishablewoman.mykajabi.co... Read the full essay on Substack https://unpunishablewoman.substack.com LISTEN Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5bSqlwc... Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast... FOLLOW Substack: https://unpunishablewoman.substack.com YouTube:    / @unpunishablewoman   TikTok: @unpunishablewoman Instagram: @unpunishablewoman LinkedIn:   / abentildhue   Brand partnerships, speaking, media and advisory enquiries: [email protected] femininity crisis women, passport bros femininity, who defines femininity, femininity and power, submission gendered, invisible contracts femininity, women and power asymmetry, white femininity universal, femininity coaching women, what is femininity, women and submission, passport bros exposed, femininity and control, women reclaiming femininity, defining femininity for yourself