"Nobody's Perfect" Is How They Keep You Accepting The Unacceptable

Nobody's perfect is one of the most overused phrases in existence - and one of the most dangerous when it is used to encourage women to accept things they should not be accepting. There is a significant difference between imperfection and dysfunction, between a bad day and a pattern, between a flaw and a behaviour that is consistently disrespectful, dishonest, or harmful. This video is about that distinction - and about the double standard that requires women to be perfect while simultaneously lowering the bar for everyone around them. 0:00 - Nobody's perfect is not wisdom. It is a strategy to keep you tolerating what you should not tolerate. 2:13 - You can't win as a woman. But you can decide what you are no longer available for. 4:28 - No human being should have to live in sustained misery. That is not strength. That is conditioning. 6:33 - A woman leaves for her peace and suddenly everyone becomes an expert on whether her feelings are valid. 9:00 - You can exercise your self-authority and the way you do it still matters. 10:00 - Repeated lying is not an imperfection. Chronic disrespect is not an imperfection. Those are patterns. 11:10 - We assess the flaws in a diamond, a house, a car, a business. Why not in a relationship. 12:39 - Women must be perfect. Men get endless grace. That double standard is not accidental. 15:05 - She went to find herself. Said with sarcasm. As if a woman wanting more is something to mock. 17:20 - There are no badges for being long suffering when what you are enduring is dysfunction. 19:45 - Patterns create outcomes. And sometimes those outcomes look like sickness in a woman's body. 21:54 - Adults evaluate patterns. You do not pretend the roof is not leaking when you are buying a house. 24:17 - Grace without judgment is dangerous. Compassion without discernment is ruinous. 26:38 - The more grace you extend without consequence the faster the disrespect accelerates. THE INVISIBLE CONTRACTS AUDIT - $49 https://unpunishablewoman.mykajabi.co... The Truth About Money https://unpunishablewoman.mykajabi.co... Read the full essay on Substack https://unpunishablewoman.substack.com LISTEN Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5bSqlwc... Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast... FOLLOW Substack: https://unpunishablewoman.substack.com YouTube:    / @unpunishablewoman   TikTok:   / unpunishablewoman   Instagram:   / unpunishablewoman   LinkedIn:   / abentildhue   Brand partnerships, speaking, media and advisory enquiries: [email protected] nobody's perfect excuse, imperfection vs dysfunction women, women accepting bad behaviour, patterns in relationships women, women and self authority, invisible contracts women, ruinous empathy women, women happiness self authority, double standards women men, women body signals data, compassion without discernment, women endurance long suffering, grace without judgment dangerous, women evaluating relationships, women and dysfunction patterns