Сатья Дас извиняется и сожалеет, ударив женщину сумкой по голове: разбор

(Timecode below) Satya Das (Sergey Yakovlev) apologizes and expresses regret after hitting a woman over the head with his bag. I dedicate this episode to the "Cycle of Violence" model. I demonstrate the elements of this cycle (rising tension / minor provocations / significant act of violence / apologies and regrets / honeymoon period / neutral pause / rising tension and then again) through episodes of Sergey's interaction with the participant in his speech. 00:00 — Introduction to the lesson. About my decision to explore Sergey Yakovlev's (Satya Das) regrets through the "Cycle of Violence" model. Introduction to the cycle: a description of its stages. Why is the cycle of violence addictive? 08:10 — Examples of minor provocations. Reflections on the importance of resisting provocations to become neck-deep in the cycle of violence. Metaphor: "Don't fall into someone else's dream." 10:50 — On inviting a third party into a family conflict. A universal technique: what's happening now, A, makes me want B. Instead, I invite you C. This is important because D. What do you think about this? 15:06 — Again, about small provocations that smoothly transition into a SAV (major act of violence). About flexing muscles before a SAV. A show of strength as a position of weakness; 18:50 — On how observers of the cycle of violence enjoy watching. The viewer demands bread and circuses! An example of a SAV that turned out to be insufficient. Viewers' reactions; 22:00 — Albert admits to profiting from this news item. Every action has both harm and benefit. What's more in this episode? Why is the cycle of violence addictive? About conditioned reflexes; 27:20 — A story about a man walking through an alleyway with his wallet hanging out of his pocket. Rule: don't tempt others, but be prepared to resist any temptation yourself. 2 of Sergey's mistakes; 30:15 — About how the cycle of violence draws in observers as well. Spectator arousal. About a crowd whose intellectual abilities are dormant; 32:30 — About ZAN again. Why does Albert call Satya Das Sergey Yakovlev? Because calling an individual by his nickname within the framework of his myth is believing in the myth. I allow myself not to believe in this myth; 37:00 — Sergey has entered the stage of attenuation; 38:30 — A peculiarity of the introduction before Sergey's apology; 40:10 — Being held hostage to the cycle of violence, a person does not want and cannot take responsibility for what is happening. He blames external forces (I'm human too / I tried for you / I couldn't keep up). About double messages; 45:08 — "I won't make excuses" — the person is clearly afraid you'll notice they're making excuses. About how a person can rationalize anything to feel good about themselves; 47:40 — Albert is furious. (About the ability to accept responsibility, which is a prerequisite for creating a functional family system). Sergey multiplies dysfunction with his example of apologies; 51:30 — 17 years of reading amazing things for you — manifestations of an Overprotective Parent in a person who teaches happy family life. Telegram: https://t.me/safin4 (Chat, news, event announcements) Lesson website: https://qcic.ru/katalog (All lessons are publicly available) In-person course (Moscow, St. Petersburg): https://qcic.ru (Live training with practical lessons) Evening performance tour of Russia: https://tour.qcic.ru Donate: https://www.donationalerts.com/r/seodrum (At your discretion) Sincerely, Albert Safin