もう距離感で悩まない!人間関係がラクになる「多少ドライ」の秘訣7選

"I'm always bad at keeping the right distance in my relationships..." Many people probably think this way. It's easier to be a little more reserved in your relationships. People who can't be more reserved will try to be friends with everyone. As a result, the number of connections that make you feel uneasy increases. Don't know too much about each other. If you feel like you're not good at it, quickly distance yourself. If you can do this, you'll be able to take control of your relationships. Please give it a try. --Watch exclusive videos to learn more about relationships and life. Receive daily words of inspiration. YouTube Membership here ▶   / @cocoyowa   ▼Table of Contents▼ 0:00 Today's Theme 0:37 ① Decide what not to talk about 2:20 ② Properly protect your territory 4:27 ③ Don't chase after those who leave 6:09 ④ Increase gratitude and affirmation 8:03 ⑤ Don't aim to be the other person's number one 10:33 ⑥ Go home alone 12:24 ⑦ End with something like, "I hope to see you again." 14:22 Summary: Today's Key Points ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's Books ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼Latest Amazon Book: "Emotional Fatigue Disappears" "How Sensitive People Speak" https://amzn.asia/d/fWSf2NS ▼Amazon "I've Decided to Stop Being Controlled"▼ https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ▶Click here for a list of his books https://brweb.jp/ryota_book/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ A Community for Sensitive People ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ --Cocoiro Salon ▶https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/3588/ ☆Learn from various experts with HSP traits and interact with fellow participants. First, learn how to improve your self-esteem, and then build relationships with confidence. This is a hybrid community of learning and interaction, perfect for those who have struggled with interpersonal relationships. Various events and weekly radio shows are also held. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About Advice and Lifestyle Information for HSPs ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ☆Learning and Advice Service Primarily for HSPs [HSP Textbook] Over 6,000 subscribers to date. A weekly newsletter with 20,000-50,000 characters of information on relationships, HSPs, HSS-type HSPs, and HSEs. Various content is available, including exclusive live shows, exclusive radio shows, exclusive videos, and a consultation form. If you'd like to discuss your concerns with Ryota, please use this newsletter. I'll explain each one in detail. *Consultations unrelated to HSPs, such as work or family-related issues, are also welcome. I'll answer as an advisor. --Click here for details and registration: ↓↓ ▶https://cocoyowa.com/mail-magazine/hs... *Winner of the 2020 MaguMagu Grand Prize Newcomer Award. *Winner of the 2021 MagMag Grand Prize by them Award. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● "People don't like to be treated roughly": The difference between people with many enemies and those with few.    • 「人は雑に扱われたくない」人間関係で敵が多い人と少ない人の違い   ● Maintain a healthy distance! 7 secrets to avoid making enemies in your relationships: "Smile + Calm"    • 距離感が整う!人間関係で敵を作らない「笑顔＋ドライ」の秘訣7選   ● "The power to prevent emotional upset": 7 ways to avoid being overwhelmed by unpleasant and painful things. https://youtu.be /7Je-ncv4zis ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles worth reading ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●A blog to help HSPs and sensitive people live better lives https://cocoyowa.com/ ●A summary of HSP diagnostic tests: "Three types: Introverted HSP, HSS, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ●Ryota's lifestyle and column blog https://brweb.jp/ ●The ultimate solo technique. When you're struggling with relationships, try living like a "friendly lone wolf." A counselor shares the secret to avoiding making enemies. https://brweb.jp/life/lone-wolf/ ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's Social Media Accounts ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● Instagram   / ryo_shigoto   ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering Letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle/Long-Laid-Back Living) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief Profile ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. Studied healing music, hearing, psychology, gender studies, etc. during college (Bachelor of Arts). A severe HSP himself, he has changed jobs five times and experienced relationship difficulties. He holds multiple titles, including mental health counselor, behavioral psychologist, composer, and lecturer. He is a father of two children. Runs "The HSP Textbook," a consultation center and lifestyle resource for HSPs. His books are currently on sale nationwide through KADOKAWA, SB Creative, and Asuka Publishing. Runs "Cocoiro Salon," a community for HSPs, and holds various events. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ *HSP is a temperament, a psychological term used to describe people who are highly sensitive to their environment. (Easily influenced by their environment, for better or worse.) J...