「我慢する必要なし!」実は友達ではない人間関係7選

"I'm worried because I'm friends with someone who hurts me..." Those people may not be your friends. We tend to assume that relationships are what they are. For example, they don't stop when you tell them to stop... There are people like this, too. They may not be your friends, but are being used. Being used also includes being used as a tool for self-affirmation. We have compiled some concrete examples, so please make use of them. --Subscribe to the channel here ▶   / @cocoyowa   --You can also watch exclusive videos that teach you about human relationships and how to live, and receive words of awareness every day YouTube membership is here ▶   / @cocoyowa   ▼Table of Contents▼ 0:00 Today's Theme 0:43 ① One-sided in many ways 2:31 ② : Don't stop doing what you've been told to stop 4:21 ③ Criticizing important things 6:33 ④ Basically negative 8:42 ⑤ Often condescending 10:40 ⑥ Rude, unable to imagine other people's lives 13:26 ⑦ Many demands 14:59 Summary: Particularly important points this time ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ A community for sensitive people ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ --Cocoiro Salon ▶https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/3588/ ☆ Learn from the various messages of experts with HSP temperament and interact with other participants. First, learn self-esteem (self-affirmation) improvement work, and then you can build relationships with peace of mind. It's a hybrid community of learning and interaction that can be used by people who have somehow failed in relationships. Various events and weekly radio shows are also held. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About consultation and information on how to live as an HSP ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ☆Learning and consultation service mainly for HSPs [HSP Textbook] More than 6,000 people have subscribed to it so far. A weekly e-mail magazine with 20,000 to 50,000 characters of information on human relationships, HSP, HSS-type HSP, and HSE. Various contents are available, such as limited live performances, limited radio, limited videos, and consultation forms. Please also use it if you want to consult Ryota about your problems. I will explain each one in detail. *Consultations unrelated to HSPs...work and family relationships are also welcome. I will answer as an advisor. --Click here for details and registration↓↓ ▶https://cocoyowa.com/mail-magazine/hs... *Won 1st place in the 2020 MagMag Grand Prize Newcomer Award. Won 1st place in the 2021 MagMag by Them Awards. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Books for HSPs (3 books published) ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼Latest Amazon "How to talk like a sensitive person, so your mental fatigue disappears" https://amzn.asia/d/fWSf2NS ▼Amazon "I've decided to stop being manipulated"▼ https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●Are you forcing yourself to be friends? 7 characteristics of "people who are hard to be friends with"    / 6t9wdr   3vmDE ● "Are they friends?" 7 points to consider when reconsidering friendships for HSPs    • 「それって友達?」HSPさんが友達関係を見直す判断ポイント7選   ● "Is it okay to be alone?" 7 things to tell HSPs who don't have friends    • 「基本1人でいいの?」友達がいないHSPさんへ伝えたい7つのこと   ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles you should read ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●HSP/sensitive A blog that makes life easier for people https://cocoyowa.com/ ● Summary of diagnostic tests for HSPs: 3 types: introverted HSP, HSS type, and HSE https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ● Recommended job change services for HSPs: some interviews accompanied, same-day handling of resignations, etc. https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/change-of-jo... ● [Archival version] Summary of HSP job selection strategies / Explained along with 10 suitable occupations https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/shigoto-erabi/ ● How to protect yourself from malicious people and things to be careful of: Explaining the secret to not getting hurt by others https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/protect-your... ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's SNS accounts ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● instagram   / ryo_shigoto   ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering Letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle, Relaxed Living) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief Profile ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. Studied healing music, hearing, psychology, gender, etc. during university (degree: arts) He is also a severe HSP, and has experienced five job changes and relationship problems. He holds multiple titles, including mental health counselor, behavioral psychologist, composer, and lecturer. He is a father of two children. ・He runs "HSP Textbook," a consultation service for HSPs and information on how to live. ・His books are on sale nationwide from KADOKAWA, SB Creative, and Asuka Publishing. ・He runs "Cocoiro Salon," a community for HSPs, and holds various events. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ※HSP is a ...

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[Causes of relationship breakdown] 7 things you should never forgive even to your closest friends...

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「友達を切る・切らない」の判断基準【精神科医・樺沢紫苑】

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[Peace of Mind] This will shut up selfish people. 7 weaknesses of people with excessive narcissism.
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[Peace of Mind] This will shut up selfish people. 7 weaknesses of people with excessive narcissism.

今すぐ縁を切るべき!?波長が合わない人とご縁が切れる前兆とは!?
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今すぐ縁を切るべき!?波長が合わない人とご縁が切れる前兆とは!?

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[This is important] 7 actions that will dramatically reduce worries about relationships / Many pe...
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[This is important] 7 actions that will dramatically reduce worries about relationships / Many pe...

[Timing for the end of a relationship] 7 signs that a relationship is ending / If this is the cas...
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親友を持つことが『必ずしも良いことではない』理由
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7 ways to make your worries about family relationships disappear / How to deal with someone you c...
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「つい腹が立っちゃう!」失礼な人との向き合い方7つ
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「つい腹が立っちゃう!」失礼な人との向き合い方7つ

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【所ジョージ】老後に「寄りかかる相手」を間違える人へ。子供・配偶者・お金より大切な、最後まで裏切らない3本の柱。
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【所ジョージ】老後に「寄りかかる相手」を間違える人へ。子供・配偶者・お金より大切な、最後まで裏切らない3本の柱。

【人生の大原則】自分を大切にする方法 &こんな「お試し」がやってきます!
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【人生の大原則】自分を大切にする方法 &こんな「お試し」がやってきます!

「友達は一部の人以外にはコスパ最悪で邪魔なだけです」人間関係のコスパを徹底的に追求した結果…【岡田斗司夫/切り抜き/サイコパスおじさん】
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「友達は一部の人以外にはコスパ最悪で邪魔なだけです」人間関係のコスパを徹底的に追求した結果…【岡田斗司夫/切り抜き/サイコパスおじさん】

※The horrible reality you only realize when you become an adult※ This is the true nature of the i...
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※The horrible reality you only realize when you become an adult※ This is the true nature of the i...

邪魔する友人から逃げて!人生の変化時は友人とサヨナラしなきゃいけない。それはナゼ? 人間関係の問題を整理する。親友であってもサヨナラしなきゃいけない時
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邪魔する友人から逃げて!人生の変化時は友人とサヨナラしなきゃいけない。それはナゼ? 人間関係の問題を整理する。親友であってもサヨナラしなきゃいけない時