「家族関係」の悩みがスーッと消える考え方7選/離れられない人への向き合い方とは?
"I'm having trouble with my family relationships...what should I do?" Family is a difficult relationship to let go of. If there's someone in your family you don't get along with, you'll likely struggle with future interactions. Even family members are strangers. You're not someone to be used. If your family is using you, it's okay to leave. I've shared that way of thinking. I hope it helps. --Subscribe to my channel here ▶ / @cocoyowa --More exclusive videos to learn about relationships and how to live. Watch them all + receive daily words of insight. YouTube membership here ▶ / @cocoyowa ▼Table of Contents▼ 0:00 Today's Theme 0:38 ① You Can't Cherish People You Don't Cherish 3:03 ② Family Even if they're strangers, they're still strangers. 5:17 ③ Help within your capabilities. 7:43 ④ If you're worried, walk away. 9:48 ⑤ Just because someone is family doesn't mean you'll love them. 13:13 ⑥ Separate the issues and think about them. 15:16 ⑦ First, face your own life. 16:45 Summary: Important Points from This Session ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ A Community for Highly Sensitive People ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ --Cocoiro Salon ▶https://lounge.dmm.com/detail/3588/ ☆ Learn from experts with HSP traits and interact with fellow participants. First, learn self-esteem improvement exercises, and then build relationships with confidence. This is a hybrid community for learning and interaction, perfect for those who have struggled with relationships. Various events and weekly radio shows are also held. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About Advice and Lifestyle Information for HSPs ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ☆Learning and Advice Service Primarily for HSPs [HSP Textbook] Over 6,000 subscribers to date. A weekly newsletter with 20,000-50,000 characters of information on relationships, HSPs, HSS-type HSPs, and HSEs. Various content is available, including exclusive live shows, exclusive radio shows, exclusive videos, and a consultation form. If you'd like to discuss your concerns with Ryota, please use this newsletter. I'll explain each one in detail. *Consultations unrelated to HSPs, such as work or family-related issues, are also welcome. I'll answer as an advisor. --Click here for details and registration: ↓↓ ▶https://cocoyowa.com/mail-magazine/hs... *Winner of the 2020 MaguMagu Grand Prize Newcomer Award. *Winner of the 2021 MagMag by them Award. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Books for HSPs (3 books published) ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ▼Latest: Amazon "How Sensitive People Speak: Instantly Relieve Mental Fatigue" https://amzn.asia/d/fWSf2NS ▼Amazon "I've Decided to Stop Being Controlled"▼ https://amzn.to/3tFimKy ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related, educational videos ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ●7 Reasons HSPs Should Beware of "Harsh Words" / Tips for Avoiding Relationship Worries https://youtu.b e/PEfL9fw8H3g ● "Mistakes that are easy to make" 6 things people who struggle with relationships tend to do + how to deal with them • 『間違いやすい』人間関係の苦手な人がやりがちな6つのこと+対処法 ● "It's OK to walk away" Summary of the effects of constantly draining relationships and how to deal with them https://youtube/vNuM6YpMW8Q ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Related blog articles you might want to read ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● HSP, A blog to help sensitive people live better lives https://cocoyowa.com/ ● Summary of HSP diagnostic tests: "Three types: Introverted HSP, HSS, and HSE" https://cocoyowa.com/test/ ● Recommended job-changing services for HSPs: "Partial interview accompaniment, same-day resignation support, etc." https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/change-of-jo... ● [Archival Edition] Job-Choosing Guide for HSPs / Explained along with 10 Suitable Occupations https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/shigoto-erabi/ ● How to protect yourself from malicious people and precautions: Secrets to avoiding emotional hurt https://cocoyowa.com/hsp/protect-your... ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota's Social Media Accounts ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ ● Blog [Cocoyowa] https://cocoyowa.com/ ● Instagram / ryo_shigoto ● stand.fm (Radio - Answering Letters) https://stand.fm/channels/5f5c6ddcf04... ● Voicy (Radio - Lifestyle/Relaxed Living) https://voicy.jp/channel/1959 ● Threads https://www.threads.net/@ryo_shigoto ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Brief Profile ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ Ryota Born in 1984. Studied healing music, hearing, psychology, gender studies, etc. during college (Bachelor of Arts). He himself is a severe HSP, and has experienced five job changes and relationship difficulties. I hold multiple titles, including mental health counselor, behavioral psychologist, composer, and lecturer. I am also a father of two. ・I run "The HSP Textbook," a consultation service for HSPs and a resource for lifestyle advice. ・My books are available nationwide from KADOKAWA, SB Creative, and Asuka Publishing. ・I run the HSP community "Cocoiro Salon" and hold various events. ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ About this channel ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ *HSP is a temperament, a psychologic...

「気にする必要なし!」家族関係で真に受けてはいけない言葉とは?1度は言われる内容がこれ
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[Must remember] 7 words to calm your mind when you're tired of relationships / What are the reali...

HSP気質のあなたへ 心を休ませましょう
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[Are you okay?] Here are 7 reasons why you might not get along with your family / 7 behaviors and...
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[Timing for the end of a relationship] 7 signs that a relationship is ending / If this is the cas...

優しい人が舐められる本当の理由|舐めてくる人の正体

【義理の家族】鬱になってしまった人も…仲良くしなきゃダメ?ひろゆき&地獄の日々から抜け出した当事者|アベプラ

Don't put up with it! Here's how to deal with mean people / 7 things to stop giving in
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[Surge in popularity] Family relationships are already strained...Explaining the increasing probl...

父親に優しく接することができません【精神科医・樺沢紫苑】

【避けるべき】付き合ってはいけない人の特徴7選/39年間の人生から学んだ教訓

"It's only natural that you'll be hurt!" 7 types of hostility you shouldn't tolerate

家族の歪みを整えると、個人の問題が解決する!【家族心理学と家族療法】
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[This is important] 7 actions that will dramatically reduce worries about relationships / Many pe...

【悪くて当然!】毒親育ちはきょうだい仲も異常!?頭のおかしい家族がいる人へ
![[Caution] 7 Behaviors That Will End Relationships / Explaining the Things People Dislike](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/QxWh2bfSWpI/hqdefault.jpg?sqp=-oaymwEjCNACELwBSFryq4qpAxUIARUAAAAAGAElAADIQj0AgKJDeAE=&rs=AOn4CLBOJBDmBcddwjhFy2Z-pbp-oaS94Q)
[Caution] 7 Behaviors That Will End Relationships / Explaining the Things People Dislike

大人になってからの「ちょうどいい家族関係のススメ」

「年々ワガママになる母親」との向き合い方

【気づけば変わる】家族と波長が合わない人が持っている使命と解決策。もしこのサインがずっと出ているなら無視しないでください。

