Why Women Lose Desire in Long-Term Relationships
What if the secret to better sex isn’t a new position or a fancy toy — but understanding desire, pleasure, connection, and your own body? In this episode, Dr. Kelly Casperson sits down with sexuality researcher and educator Nicole McNichols to unpack why women lose desire in long-term relationships, the myth of spontaneous desire, how stress and mental load affect libido, and why pleasure is essential for health and intimacy. They also discuss: • Responsive vs spontaneous desire • Why novelty matters in long-term relationships • The science behind attraction and “heated rivalry” • Female anatomy most people were never taught • Hormones, menopause, and midlife sexuality • Why communication is actually hot This is the sex education women should have gotten years ago. Subscribe: / @kellycaspersonmd Dr. Kelly Casperson is a board-certified urologic surgeon, sex educator, and CEO of The Casperson Clinic, specializing in hormones, sexual health, and midlife wellness. This channel is your go-to resource for science-backed insights on intimacy, desire, and thriving in midlife. Through expert advice and candid conversations, Dr. Kelly helps women overcome myths about sexual health, demystify hormones, and create fulfilling relationships. Whether you’re navigating menopause, seeking to improve intimacy, or simply want to prioritize your health, this channel offers practical tips to help you live confidently and vibrantly. If you love the "You Are Not Broken" podcast, don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share it with someone who needs to hear it! Your support helps more people find this life-changing information — and keeps the conversations we should have been having all along going strong. 🎯 Want more? Check out courses, clinic info, and all things midlife mastery at kellycaspersonmd.com. 📚 Books by Dr. Kelly Casperson: Grab You Are Not Broken: Stop Should-ing All Over Your Sex Life at Barnes & Noble, Amazon, or your favorite local bookstore. https://a.co/d/h8SOIrV And Menopause Matters: Science, Hormones, and Mindset for Optimal Longevity https://amzn.to/42Y2DrG Medical Disclaimer: This content is for informational, educational, and entertainment purposes only. It’s not medical advice and shouldn’t replace talking with your own healthcare team. Always reach out to your doctor or qualified provider with any questions about your health. Use this information at your own risk. #youarenotbroken #drkellycasperson #hormonetherapy Let’s Connect... Website: https://www.kellycaspersonmd.com Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/4iZ4pa5... IG: / kellycaspersonmd FB: / youarentbroken Threads: https://www.threads.net/@kellycaspers... Substack: https://substack.com/@kellycaspersonmd Subscribe: / @kellycaspersonmd

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