Grief is love | Why losing a dog can hurt the most | Lisa Waggoner

If you've ever been through it, you'll know how painful it can be.  You'll know what it's like the next morning after they've gone.  The little signs of them missing, like the pitter-patter of their paws across the floor, the sound of their tongue lapping at the water bowl, the warmth of their body as they scoot closer during a Netflix binge. A recent study from Maynooth University found that losing a pet can sometimes be as intense and as long-lasting as losing a person. Part of why it affects us so deeply is that our dogs get to see a side of us that no one else ever sees.  That playful, that gentle, that childlike part of us that only ever comes out around them. They give us purpose. They need us completely.  So when they go, there's a part of us that goes with them, a part of us that existed only in their presence. And because dogs don't live that long, loving them means grieving them more than once, sometimes many times across a single lifetime.  Lisa Waggoner, my guest on the podcast today, has lived exactly that. She's a force-free dog trainer for more than 20 years, the founder of Cold Nose College, faculty at the Victoria Stilwell Academy, author of Rocket Recall, and an ordained animal chaplain. She's lost 4 young dogs, one of them hit by a car at a year old, and each one changed the course of her life and her work.  We talk about why losing a dog can hurt as much as it does, why the world is still so quick to say it's only a dog, and what that kind of grief reveals about the way they were loved. This is Just a Dog Podcast, and I'm your host, Nadine. Let's begin.