ÇOCUĞA SÖZ DİNLETECEK 3 CÜMLE | Hatice Kübra Tongar

In this video, expert psychologist and author Hatice Kübra Tongar touches upon a point that mothers know very well: “I’ve told them forty times, and on the forty-first time, my patience runs out…” But is it really true that “the child doesn’t listen,” or are we using the wrong words? If you also say, “Nothing I say works,” this video opens a whole new door with three sentence patterns that will make your job easier. In this video, she discusses how telling children what to do instead of saying “don’t do that,” giving concrete instructions instead of abstract phrases like “be good,” and motivating them with praise instead of criticism, all change children’s behavior. And finally, there’s a golden balance in the parent-child relationship… When you hear it, many things will fall into place. 👉 Share your thoughts and questions in the comments. 👉 Don’t forget to like the video and subscribe and turn on notifications. 👉 Every piece of content we produce about family grows with your support! You can contribute by clicking the “Thank you” button below the video. For all of Hatice Kübra Tongar's books, you can visit haticekubratongarkitaplari.com. (advertisement) Contents: 00:00 – “I’ve told you forty times…” Why does parental patience run out? 00:19 – 3 sentence patterns that get children to obey 00:45 – 1) Saying “...” instead of “Don’t do it” 01:26 – The example of hitting: teaching alternative behavior 02:29 – The example of a remote control: directing to the correct target 02:45 – 2) Not abstract labels, but .... instructions 03:30 – What does the child understand? What does the parent mean? 04:04 – Guiding with a clear list: explaining step by step 04:23 – Concrete rules instead of “behave” when visiting 05:25 – 3) Not criticism, but congratulations: the language of motivation 05:53 – Diet example: Is criticism or encouragement more effective? 06:44 – Examples of positive sentences to use 07:33 – The 5 to 1 rule: balance that strengthens relationships 08:17 – Closing PLAYLISTS 👉 My Healing Self    • İNSAN EKSİK YÖNLERİNİ NASIL GELİŞTİRİR?  |...   👉 My Healing Marriage    • REGL DÖNEMİNDEKİ EŞİNİZE BUNLARI YAPIN | H...   👉 My Healing Parenthood    • ANNELER! ANNELİĞİ ABARTMAYIN… | Hatice Küb...   👉 Non-Shouting Mothers    • TEKNOLOJİ VE AİLE | Bağırmayan Anneler | 1...   👉 My Healing Religious Life    • "DEİZME KARŞI EN ETKİLİ YOL!..."  | Hatice...   #haticekübratongar #communicationwithchildren