Sinir Bozucu İnsanlarla Nasıl Başa Çıkarız? | Hatice Kübra Tongar

In this video, expert psychologist and author Hatice Kübra Tongar offers a completely different perspective on what we call "annoying people." She reminds us that we all have people in our lives who drain our energy, force us to explain ourselves, make snide remarks, or constantly complain. But she explains that the real issue is often not them, but our ability to "set boundaries" and the triggers within our inner world. Tongar psychologically examines why some people are so annoying to us while being quite lovable to others. She focuses on the question, "What does that person trigger in me?" through concepts like triggers, childhood schemas, feelings of worthlessness, and our shadow sides. In this way, she invites the viewer not only to blame the other person, but also to recognize their own feelings and engage in mature self-reflection. The video continues by sharing examples of how to respond, rather than react, when faced with people who lack boundaries, constantly play the victim, think they know everything, and communicate through snide remarks. The video explores questions such as: What can we say to loved ones who are in the role of victims? How can we calmly but clearly set boundaries with those who make snide remarks? Why might we always attract the same type of people into our lives? Ultimately, it emphasizes that the real issue isn't about putting others down; it's about strengthening our self-esteem, boundaries, and inner maturity. 👉 Share your thoughts and questions in the comments. 👉 Don't forget to like the video and subscribe and turn on notifications. 👉 Every piece of content we produce about family grows with your support! You can contribute by clicking the "Thank you" button below the video. For all of Hatice Kübra Tongar's books, you can visit haticekubratongarkitaplari.com. (advertisement) Contents: 00:00 Who is the annoying person? Is it really "them" or us? 03:25 Why do some people trigger us so much? 07:10 The most annoying types of people in society 11:40 Reacting or responding? The critical difference 14:30 How to talk to loved ones who are always playing the victim role? 16:00 Why do I always find the same type of people? 17:20 Closing: What do these people teach us? PLAYLISTS 👉 My Healing Self    • İNSAN EKSİK YÖNLERİNİ NASIL GELİŞTİRİR?  |...   👉 My Healing Marriage    • REGL DÖNEMİNDEKİ EŞİNİZE BUNLARI YAPIN | H...   👉 My Healing Parenthood    • ANNELER! ANNELİĞİ ABARTMAYIN… | Hatice Küb...   👉 Non-Shouting Mothers    • TEKNOLOJİ VE AİLE | Bağırmayan Anneler | 1...   👉 My Healing Religious Life    • "DEİZME KARŞI EN ETKİLİ YOL!..."  | Hatice...   #haticekübratongar #annoyingpeople