Non, l'évitant ne revient pas toujours, et voici pourquoi !

Coaching with me: https://forms.gle/oDt9LqRYFM3xk9YRA We often hear that people with an avoidant attachment style always end up coming back. It's a reassuring idea, yet incomplete. In this video, I explain why a person with an avoidant attachment style doesn't always return. I discuss emotional deactivation, a decision made in silence, relief after the breakup, defensive pride… and also shame. This central emotion is rarely addressed in breakups with someone who has an avoidant attachment style. Understanding these mechanisms allows you to stop waiting for external action and start repositioning yourself internally. Transform the question "Will she come back?" into: "Why am I still waiting?" If you're going through a breakup with someone who has an avoidant attachment style, this analysis will help you understand what's really happening. — Subscribe if you'd like in-depth content on attachment, relationship dynamics, and rebuilding after a breakup. ------------------------ 🤓 References: BOOKS 📕 "Attachment Theory - The Basics" Authors: Ruth O'Shaughnessy, Katherine Berry, Rudi Dallos, Karen Bateson / Publisher: Routledge / Year: 2023 📕 "Understanding Attachment and Its Disorders: Theory and Practice" Authors: Vivien Prior, Danya Glase / Publisher: De Boeck Sup / Year: 2022 📕 "Cut Off from Others, Cut Off from Oneself: When Emotional Distance Masks Attachment Wounds" Author: Gwénaëlle Persiaux / Publisher: Eyrolles / Year: 2022 📕 "Healing Attachment Wounds" Author: Gwénaëlle Persiaux / Publisher: Eyrolles / Year: 2021 📕 "Attachment: Theoretical Approach and Assessment" Author: Nicole Guedeney, Antoine Guedeney, Susana Tereno / Ed.: Elsevier Masson / Year: 2021 📕 "Attachment in Adulthood, Second Edition: Structure, Dynamics, and Change" Mario Mikulincer, Phillip R. Shaver / Publisher: Guilford Press / Year: 2017 📕 "Patterns of Attachment: A Psychological Study of the Strange Situation" Authors: Mary D. Salter Ainsworth, Mary C. Blehar, Everett Waters, Sally Wall Publisher: Routledge / Year: 2015 📕 "Attachment and Loss". Volume 2 - Separation, Anguish, and Anger Author: John Bowlby / Publisher: PUF / Year: 2007 📕 "A Secure Base" Author: John Bowlby / Publisher: Routledge / Year: 2005 📕 "Attachment and Loss, Volume 3" - Loss - Sadness and Depression Author: John Bowlby / Publisher: PUF / Year: 1999 (First edition) 📕 "John Bowlby and Attachment Theory" (Makers of Modern Psychotherapy) Author: Jeremy Holmes / Publisher: Routledge / Year: 1993 📕 "Attachment and Loss" Volume 1 - Attachment Author: John Bowlby / Publisher: Basic Books / Year: 1990 PODCASTS 🎙️ Gwénaëlle Persiaux: Healing Attachment Wounds / #230 • #230 Gwénaëlle Persiaux: Healing Attachment Wounds... VIDEOS 📺 The Power of Vulnerability; TEDx Talk by Brené Brown • The Power of Vulnerability | Brené Brown |... 📺 "At the Heart of Attachment 1/3: Love and Anxiety, Are They Compatible?" / #74 • #74 At the Heart of Attachment 1/3: Love and... Camille Tomat 📺 "At the Heart of Attachment 2/3: Avoidant Attachment or Why You're Afraid of Commitment" / #75 • #75 At the Heart of Attachment 2/3: Avoidant Attachment... Camille Tomat 📺 "At the Heart of Attachment 3/3: Anxious and Disorganized Styles" / #76 • #76 At the Heart of Attachment 3/3: Anxious and Disorganized Styles... Camille Tomat PUBLICATIONS 📋 "On Knowing What You Are Not Supposed to Know and Feeling What You Are Not Supposed to Feel" John Bowlby, M.D. / The Canadian Journal of Psychiatry / Volume 24 Issue 5, August 1979 📋 "Pathological Mourning and Childhood Mourning" John Bowlby, M.D. / Journal of the American Psychoanalytic Association / Volume 11 Issue 3, July 1963 📋 "Attachment, a theory to rediscover and complete" Camus, Jean Le / Child Psychiatry / Paris Vol. 37, No. 2, (Jan 1, 1994): 659.