Ce qui bloque vraiment le changement chez les évitants
Coaching with me: https://forms.gle/oDt9LqRYFM3xk9YRA There's a widespread belief that people with avoidant attachment are doomed to run away, incapable of changing, forever trapped by their fear of intimacy. What if that weren't true? In this video, I'd like to show you another reality. The reality of avoidant people who dared to confront their patterns. Who learned to recognize their fears. And who, step by step, succeeded in transforming the way they love. The path isn't easy, nor is it quick, but it is possible. And the stories I'm going to share with you are proof of that. --------- 🤓 References: BOOKS 📕 "Attachment Theory - The Basics" Authors: Ruth O'Shaughnessy, Katherine Berry, Rudi Dallos, Karen Bateson / Publisher: Routledge / Year: 2023 📕 "Understanding Attachment and Its Disorders: Theory and Practice" Authors: Vivien Prior, Danya Glase / Publisher: De Boeck Sup / Year: 2022 📕 "Cut Off from Others, Cut Off from Oneself: When Emotional Distance Masks Attachment Wounds" Author: Gwénaëlle Persiaux / Publisher: Eyrolles / Year: 2022 📕 "Healing Attachment Wounds" Author: Gwénaëlle Persiaux / Publisher: Eyrolles / Year: 2021 📕 "Attachment: Theoretical Approach and Assessment" Author: Nicole Guedeney, Antoine Guedeney, Susana Tereno / Ed.: Elsevier Masson / Year: 2021 📕 "Attachment in Adulthood, Second Edition: Structure, Dynamics, and Change" Mario Mikulincer, Phillip R. Shaver / Publisher: Guilford Press / Year: 2017 📕 "Patterns of Attachment: A Psychological Study of the Strange Situation" Authors: Mary D. Salter Ainsworth, Mary C. Blehar, Everett Waters, Sally Wall Publisher: Routledge / Year: 2015 📕 "Attachment and Loss". Volume 2 - Separation, Anguish, and Anger Author: John Bowlby / Publisher: PUF / Year: 2007 📕 "A Secure Base" Author: John Bowlby / Publisher: Routledge / Year: 2005 📕 "Attachment and Loss, Volume 3" - Loss - Sadness and Depression Author: John Bowlby / Publisher: PUF / Year: 1999 (First edition) 📕 "John Bowlby and Attachment Theory" (Makers of Modern Psychotherapy) Author: Jeremy Holmes / Publisher: Routledge / Year: 1993 📕 "Attachment and Loss" Volume 1 - Attachment Author: John Bowlby / Publisher: Basic Books / Year: 1990 PUBLICATIONS 📋 "On Knowing What You Are Not Supposed to Know and Feeling What You Are Not Supposed to Feel" John Bowlby, M.D. / The Canadian Journal of Psychiatry / Volume 24 Issue 5, August 1979 📋 "Pathological Mourning and Childhood Mourning" John Bowlby, M.D. / Journal of the American Psychoanalytic Association / Volume 11 Issue 3, July 1963 📋 "Attachment: A Theory to Rediscover and Complete" Camus, Jean Le / Child Psychiatry / Paris Vol. 37, No. 2, (Jan 1, 1994): 659

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