【バウンダリー/境界線】あなたと私は“別の部屋”。察しすぎ・求めすぎから抜け出す線引きの感覚。「応えない=冷たい」わけじゃない
Hello, good evening. This is Kii. This time, we're talking after the recording about "people with weak boundaries." ★Click here for the main video • 【境界線の改善】気になりすぎ・怒りっぽい。振り回される(振り回す)関係から抜け出す“... Some people "had no choice" due to rigid education or shocking experiences. It's not that "it's bad if even a little bit applies to you." I hope this will help you to become more self-aware and to see reality objectively. My initial goal is to post videos with one theme per week. Please support me by liking and subscribing♪ -------- 🙌Petit sharing to make YouTube a safe and fun place🙌 A Google account is required to like and subscribe YouTube likes are set up so that neither the sender nor the viewer knows who pressed them⚪︎ Don't worry if you're worried about your private life being seen (The same goes for likes on comments; neither the other person nor I can see who likes them) Your account name will be publicly displayed in the comments section, so we recommend that you change it if you are using your real name Only I can see your account name when subscribing to a channel ※ Please refrain from replying to advice for other people here ※ We may answer general questions, but please refrain from asking for advice on individual situations If you want to send your thoughts but don't want to do so in the comments, please send them to the official LINE! (Only I can read the official LINE. The link is below) -------- Finally, Each person lives in a background and circumstances that only they know. With limited space and time, it's not possible to provide perfect information or consideration for everyone, but we hope that our posts will be of some help in your daily life. --- Summary of current activities --- 📙 Books 🆕 "A book that eases a tired mind" Ousama Bunko https://amzn.asia/d/buOgNJS "Say goodbye to a tired mind" KADOKAWA https://amazon.co.jp/dp/4048966235 "Start by saying "I love myself"" Yamato Publishing https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/4804762876 📱 Social media related ・Instagram / kiitanuma ・X / kiitanuma_tanu ・Threads https://www.threads.net/@kiitanuma ・Official Line https://lin.ee/43vkdy6 (I'm reading vents and messages) Next video: Next video will be updated next Wednesday evening to night ☺️ Thank you for your hard work today. Thank you as always. --- #human relationships #stress #psychology #self-esteem #education #family #love #work #communication #boundaries
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Are You Actually Happy… Or Just On Stage?

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親と絶縁して7年。私が「親は頭が悪い」と認めた瞬間に、人生が激変した話。

嫌いな人とどうするのが正解か?そもそも、あなたは身近な人が嫌いだと気づいているか?知らずに抑圧していたとするならとんでもない事になる。
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職場で仲良くはダメ!?No友達【バウンダリー】を作ろう!
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【発達障害】自他境界線のあいまいさが、生きにくさのひとつの原因かも?説明と対策 ~ASD/アスペルガー症候群/高機能自閉症/自閉スペクトラム症~
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「境界線」人間関係がもめる原因はここにある〜人との境界線を明らかにすること
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[Obsessed] Strong attachment to an object, unable to get it out of your head. Ask yourself "why?"...
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