なぜ人は、“好きな人にだけ”そっけなくしてしまうのか【脳科学×進化心理学】

You receive a message from someone you like. "Want to go out for dinner sometime?" You should be happy, but your fingers type this reply: "Hmm, I might be a little busy." You freeze after sending it. Why did you reply like that? You can be normally kind to people you don't care about. But only with people you care about, your attitude becomes rigid. However, neuroscience and evolutionary psychology don't explain this aloofness as a "cold personality." The brain processes rejection as real pain. And before you get hurt, you close yourself off. Why do you become cold only to the person you like? Why do you do the opposite of what you want to do, when you want to be kind? Why do you push them away when you want to get closer? This video dissects the human psychology of "avoiding the person you like," based on research in neuroscience, evolutionary psychology, and attachment theory. That aloofness isn't a sign of a cold personality. It's a defense mechanism ingrained in your brain hundreds of thousands of years ago to protect yourself from getting hurt. #Neuroscience #Psychology #EvolutionaryPsychology #AttachmentTheory #RelationshipPsychology #Neuroscience #AvoidantType #Relationships #Love #SelfLoathing