なぜ人は、トラウマになるほどのパワハラ経験を、後で「あれがあったから成長できた」と美化するのか【脳科学×社会心理学】

Those were truly painful days. Every day, my personality was attacked, I was yelled at unfairly, and driven to the brink. Even now, just thinking about it makes my chest ache. However, now, several years later, I suddenly realize I'm saying this: "Because of that experience, I am who I am today. That experience made me stronger." The moment I say that, a small sense of unease runs through me. It was so painful. Am I just conveniently twisting the past? But neuroscience and social psychology don't explain this "beautification" as "weakness" or "deception." The human mind is not built to withstand the contradiction of meaningless suffering. Why do we find value in painful experiences? Why does only the pain fade with time? Why do memories conveniently get rewritten? This video dissects the mechanisms that protect the human mind, based on research in neuroscience, social psychology, and evolutionary psychology. The suffering you experienced was real. You don't have to force yourself to believe it was a good experience. Beautification isn't weakness. It's proof that your brain is working diligently to support your fragile self. #Neuroscience #SocialPsychology #Psychology #CognitiveDissonance #Harassment #Neuroscience #Trauma #Relationships #HumanPsychology #Memory