なぜ優しい人ほど、会社で壊れてしまうのか【心理学×歴史】

Why is your kindness unrewarded? You've always ended up being just a "nice person." You can't refuse a request. You always put others before yourself. —But before you know it, you're always losing out. Psychology offers a clear answer to this injustice. And what's surprising is what comes after. Kind people don't just sink to the bottom. They can also be at the top. Where is that turning point? ▼Table of Contents 0:00 Prologue — Two Paths of an Outstretched Hand 2:03 Chapter 1: Why Kind People Sink to the Bottom 4:21 Chapter 2: Why Kindness Is Devoured 6:27 Chapter 3: Kindness Wears Down the Heart 9:41 Chapter 4: But Kind People Also Reach the Top 12:11 Chapter 5: The One and Only Condition for Unbreakable Kindness 14:39 Final Chapter — Is Your Kindness Protecting You? ▼About This Channel The Layers of the Heart in History [History x Psychology] History from all times and places, and the latest psychology. By tracing both, we shed light on the depths of the human heart. A documentary for adults who live each day seriously. Tracing the layers of the human heart. ▼Related Videos ・Why do people put off the things they really need to do? [Psychology x History]    • なぜ人は、本当にやるべき事ほど後回しにするのか【心理学×歴史】   ・Why does a year go by so quickly for adults? [Psychology x History]    • なぜ大人の1年は、こんなにも速く終わるのか【心理学×歴史】   ▼References and Sources 【Organizational Psychology】 ・Adam Grant, "GIVE & TAKE: How Helping Others Succeed" (2013) —The three categories of Givers/Takers/Matchers, and the U-shaped structure of sales performance (Givers at both the bottom and top) ・Adam Grant & Reb Rebele, "Beat Generosity Burnout" (Harvard Business Review, 2017) —The branching conditions between "smart givers" and "self-sacrificing givers" 【Psychology】 ・Charles R. Figley, "Compassion Fatigue: Coping with Secondary Traumatic Stress Disorder" In Those Who Treat the Traumatized (Brunner-Routledge, 1995) —Establishment of the concept of Compassion Fatigue *Barbara Oakley et al. "Pathological Altruism" (Oxford University Press, 2011) —Pathological Altruism—The structure in which kindness harms oneself and others [History] Ignaz Semmelweis, *The Pathogenesis, Concept and Prevention of Puerperal Fever (1861) —In 1847, the encouragement of handwashing reduced the mortality rate from puerperal fever from over 10% to around 1%. At the time, he was rejected by the academic community "out of good intentions" and died in isolation. #Psychology #History #Documentary #Kindness #Giver #AdamGrant #CompassionFatigue #Semmelweis #TheMindOfHistory