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Why do people feign unhappiness and crave empathy from their partners in romantic relationships? We discuss the 'essence of love' through the fundamental structural differences between men and women from a psychoanalytic perspective. Love is giving what you do not have to someone who does not want it. - Jacques Lacan - "If we haven't reached that point, let's not talk about love..." What do you think about the paradox of love, which is only possible by giving up oneself? 00:00 Highlights 00:42 "I end up talking about unhappiness whenever I meet my boyfriend" 00:54 The desire of men for unhappy women 02:18 The beginning of a relationship: A helping hand 03:02 The difference between feminine structure and masculine structure 04:45 Is love ultimately unattainable? 05:04 The Essence of Love as Seen Through O. Henry's 'The Gift of the Magi' 06:45 Empathy Tailored to Each Person's Language 09:50 The Reason We Don't Give What We Want in a Loving Relationship 11:42 The Mechanism of Jealousy: When Someone Eats a Persimmon That Is Astringent to Me with Deliciousness 13:11 'Who Am I to Him?' Where to Apply for Individual Psychoanalysis and Send Stories/Questions : [email protected] (If you send your stories/questions via comments or email, we will select and answer them in future videos. Please let us know if you do not wish to receive them :)) Your stories become content for Piann. "One path, without distraction, slowly, without compromise... until we face the deepest part of our inner selves, our true selves..." If you are curious about psychoanalysis, visit    • "정신분석" 그것이 알고 싶다! | 정신분석클리닉_피안(PIANN)