자꾸 피해자 되는 사람, 'OO'때문일 수 있다?

Is the belief that "my feelings are always right" truly safe? The moment we grant power to our emotions and define ourselves as unconditional victims, unexpected dynamics arise in our relationships. This refers to the ambiguous roles of perpetrator and victim in marital or everyday relationships, rather than the clear-cut perpetrator-victim dynamics found in crimes. Are you constantly provoking an aggressive partner and seeking unconscious satisfaction through the resulting anger and outbursts? In today's video, we discussed the clandestine pleasure we gain from unconsciously maintaining the "victim" position in our daily lives, as well as the dangers of that moral power. Facing the truth can sometimes be dangerous and uncomfortable, but it is an area that must be thoroughly examined to escape recurring pain. 00:00 Highlights 00:37 Are My Emotions Always Right? What Happens When Power Is Granted to Emotions 01:06 The Dynamics of the 'Hysterical Mom' and 'Aggressive Dad' in a Marital Relationship 02:12 The Framing of the Negative Hysteria Structure Caused by Parental Dynamics 03:00 Why Does Being a Victim Become 'Power'? 03:40 An Argument Between an Elderly Couple in Their 80s 05:07 The Perpetrator Changes, but the Child Is Always the Victim 06:29 Everyone Has a Position They Are Accustomed to Where to Apply for Individual Psychoanalysis and Send Stories/Questions : [email protected] (If you send your stories/questions via comments or email, we will select and answer them in future videos. Please let us know if you do not wish to receive them :)) Your stories become Piann's content. "One path, without distraction, slowly, without compromise... until we face the deepest part of our inner selves, our true selves..." If you are curious about psychoanalysis, visit    • "정신분석" 그것이 알고 싶다! | 정신분석클리닉_피안(PIANN)   This is an explanation from a 'psychoanalytic perspective' regarding victims within a structure of negative hysteria, rather than victims of crime. Please keep this in mind while watching.