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Childhood Deprivation: Can It Be Filled If We Receive It Enough Now? (On the Illusion of Re-parenting) We live our entire lives harboring this question. We constantly demand that our parents, partners, or counselors fill that void. The desire to find ‘Kim Tae-hee’ in the mirror and to wish for the husband beside us to be a ‘prince.’ The sweet comfort and empathy that confine us as ‘babies’ for a lifetime. What does it mean to truly love oneself? I hope you will face together the beginning of true ‘freedom’ and ‘love’ as we live while remaining square and as frogs. 00:00 Highlights 00:45 Childhood Deprivation: Can It Be Filled Even Now If We Receive It? 01:14 "Just Listen to Them Unconditionally": The Pitfalls of Empathy and Support That Even Experts Misunderstand 01:36 The Standard of 'Sufficiently Providing' 02:02 Recovery and Limitations in Romantic Relationships 02:35 The Real Reason Parents Try to Fill Their Children's Needs Late 02:54 Giving What Was Needed at Age 3 at Age 12 04:38 Why Must We Treat Ourselves and Others as 'Children' Until the End? 2. Judgment and Evaluation: Why Are They So Fearful? 05:08 "Why Shouldn't We Judge?" 06:40 No One Is Born to Be Loved! 07:35 The work of 'reading' the unspoken unconscious 09:25 A cold adult treatment for those who crave 'coddling' 3. True love that begins only after love has ended 10:05 "I wasn't Kim Tae-hee": The fantasy of wanting to be reflected in a mirror (lover) The psychology of begging others for specialness: "Why do I have to be loved specially?" 11:45 The true self-love method of a square that wants to become a circle 15:45 The ceaseless search for substitutes viewed through Lacan's 'Object a' 17:50 The psychological mechanism of nagging a lover: "Why won't you give me that?" 18:55 When you thought it was a prince but it turned out to be a 'frog' 21:17 [Post-credits scene] Production behind-the-scenes 🍪 Where to send stories/questions : [email protected] (If you send your stories/questions via comments or email, we will select and answer them in a future video. If you do not wish to... Please let me know :)) "One path, without distraction, slowly, without compromise... until we face the deepest part of our inner selves, our true selves..." If you are curious about psychoanalysis, check out    • "정신분석" 그것이 알고 싶다! | 정신분석클리닉_피안(PIANN)