Психолог Лариса Суркова. Домашние задания, оценки, экзамены — как со всем этим справиться?

September 1st is just a few days away. This means that parents and students are facing early mornings, lessons, stress, and all the traditional school chores. To make things a little easier, we spoke with Larisa Surkova, a mother of seven and professional psychologist, about all the "horrors" of school: the homework that plagues the entire family, the dreaded grades, the excruciating preparation for the Unified State Exam (USE) and Basic State Exam (BSE), and finally, how to motivate a child to study. In short, we discussed all the most pressing problems facing schoolchildren of all ages and their parents. 00:00:00 In this episode 00:00:57 Why study when you can find everything on Google? 00:05:25 How should September 1st be spent to ensure a successful school year? 00:06:19 How can you discourage a student from studying? 00:06:45 The Pygmalion Effect – an experiment that increased student academic performance by 30 percent 00:07:28 How does the school year begin in our schools, and why shouldn't we expect high student performance afterward? 00:08:49 How to choose the right school? 00:11:21 Why is it important to check the school's restrooms? 00:13:47 What age should you start school? 00:16:47 ADHD – what is it and how to cope with it during school? 00:19:22 The Curse of Homework 00:20:37 How do parents get themselves into a homework rut, and is it right to do homework for their child? 00:23:50 What is the right way to help a child with homework if they're struggling? 00:25:46 What should you do if you're worried about your child's grades? 00:27:24 How can you independently test your child's knowledge level? 00:28:45 Negative motivation, or how do parents themselves push their child to do poorly in school? 00:29:49 The "green pen" method that motivates a child to study well 00:30:52 How should you react if your child consistently brings home bad grades? 00:34:16 Is it okay to pay your child money for good grades? 00:36:31 Is it good or bad for your child to attend extracurricular activities? 00:37:47 Is it okay for a child to drop out of extracurricular activities? 00:39:37 How can you tell if you're doing it for your child's development or for yourself? 00:40:12 How to cope with anxiety before the OGE and USE exams so it doesn't end in tragedy 00:43:13 What to do if your child's behavior changes while preparing for exams? 00:44:51 What to do if an adult child doesn't want to study? 00:49:10 Yulia's story – how she reacted when her son announced that he wasn't the one who wanted to get a higher education 00:51:35 "If you want to be an adult, be one" 00:53:03 Career guidance – how to decide on a future profession? 00:55:03 Why is it dangerous to focus only on a child's intellectual development? 00:58:15 What is emotional development, and why do modern children face a deficit in it? 00:59:24 How does a lack of emotional development block imaginative thinking and creativity? 01:00:52 What should parents do to help their child develop emotionally? 01:03:27 Is it okay to ask a child, "How are things at school?" Telegram: https://t.me/JuliaMenshovaJulia Instagram*:   / juliavmenshova   *Instagram is owned by the American company Meta, which has been declared extremist and is banned in Russia. #psychology #menshova #samamenshova