Beyond Pleasure: Reclaiming Your Body & Your Boundaries with Jasmine C. Perry

You're having sex to keep him. You're having sex because you feel obligated. You're having sex because your body said yes even though your nervous system screamed no. And you still don't know what you actually want. In this episode, I'm talking with Jasmine C. Perry, author of "40 Sex Lessons from Me to You" and the woman who spent two years in tantra training after her 12-year relationship ended because neither of them could talk about desire. Jasmine isn't here to teach you techniques or performance. She's here to teach you discernment. About your body. About who deserves access to you. And about the difference between sex that uses you and sex that heals you. We dive into surrender, oxytocin attachment patterns, and why your nervous system is a better guide than your longing. If you've ever wondered why you keep choosing the same pattern, felt guilty for wanting pleasure, or realized you don't actually know what your body needs—this one's for you. Resources Mentioned: 40 Sex Lessons From Me To You by Jasmine C Perry Where to Buy Amazon TOPICS DISCUSSED: Why we use sex as a tool for love instead of a tool for pleasure How tantra taught her what real surrender actually means The oxytocin effect: what happens to your brain after sex with someone you don't fully trust Sexual desire as a map to your boundaries and your worth Moving through the sexual landscape as a healer instead of just a participant Knowing your "why" before you move How your nervous system already knows when you're doing it for the wrong reasons Building transcendent sex through trust, not performance The difference between transactional sex that works and transactional sex that ruins you What she learned reaching out to former partners about her own sexuality Connect with Jasmine on: Dreams Only: Wine & Vibes LinkedIn | www.linkedin.com/in/jasminecperry Instagram | www.instagram.com/jasminethalegend Connect with Sophia Website | www.thereikihealingcoach.com Instagram | @sophia_i_got_ig Instagram | @createlifeyourway Facebook | www.facebook.com/sophia.e.754 LinkedIn | Sophia Elcock