THE PAIN OF BETRAYAL TRAUMA & DETACHED PARENTS|Psychotherapy Crash Course

Detached parents are very complicated. They often cause betrayal trauma in their adult children. Most detached parents have unresolved mental health needs of their own. No one ever wants to believe a parent doesn't care about the very thing they brought into this world. Most people believe that all parents are loving and engaging and would never intentionally harm their child. But research tells us something different about a small group of detached parents. Most detached parents run highly emotional households full of critical, hostile, and enmeshed behaviors. Children who grow up in these kind of families become adults with betrayal trauma -- feeling abandoned, unloved, and disregarded. In this video, I discuss characteristics of the detached parent and the behaviors that lead to betrayal trauma. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #trauma #DETACHEDPARENTS #betrayaltrauma #tamarahilllpc -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO: 0:00 intro 2:30 abusive and emotionally immature parents 4:00 they don't have the right to... 4:45 betrayal trauma experience 5:48 signs a parent has given up (verbal signs, behavioral signs, priorities) 7:24 characteristics of a messy childhood 9:01 8 things you may have experienced ---------------------------------------------------------------------- Mentioned In The Video: 1. High expressed emotion: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/arti.... 2. Expressed emotion https://care-clinics.com/high-express... ----------------------------------------------------------------------- SUBSCRIBE for more videos: 👩‍💻    / tamarahtherapist   *New videos Wednesday, Friday and/or Sunday, EST. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- Music: –––––––––––––––––––––––––––------- 🎵 Track Info: Epidemic Sound ----------------------------------------------------------------- DISCLAIMER: *Videos are provided for exploration and educational purposes only and does not constitute clinical suggestions or consultation for individual cases. If you or someone you know is having a medical emergency involving harm to self, please reach out to the suicide prevention hotline https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/. ---------------------------------------------------------------- ----Contact me-------(BUSINESS INQUIRIES ONLY) I'm Támara, a licensed and internationally/Board certified trauma mental health therapist, with over 14 years experience. I specialize in helping children, teens, and families with mental illness. I also treat psychological/emotional trauma in children, teens, and adults. If you'd like to contact me or inquire about my international consultations, you may email me at [email protected]. *Please note: all consultations are charged a fixed rate fee based on the case content. Mail me stuff! PO BOX 15747 Robinson Township, PA 15244 *FOLLOW ME ON SOCIAL MEDIA: Twitter -   / therapisttee   Website - http://www.anchoredinknowledge.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thilltherap... ______________________________________ Copyright © All rights reserved. Permission must be given before videos are used.

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