Why Scapegoat Abuse Causes Betrayal Trauma #scapegoat #narcissisticfamily #betrayal

Being scapegoated by your family-of-origin constitutes a profound form of betrayal that can be traumatizing to adult survivors of this unique type of 'invisible' (psycho-emotional) systemic abuse. Family Systems expert Rebecca C. Mandeville (author of 'Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed') explains how adult survivors of family scapegoating abuse (FSA) are impacted by betrayal trauma. She also highlights the consequences of being 'rejected, shamed, and blamed' by the people who were supposed to love and care for you the most. (See Trigger Warning and Chapters, below. Also suitable for therapists and clinicians). Join my online educational and peer-support community for FSA adult survivors on Substack. Learn more by visiting https://familyscapegoathealing.substa... ✅ You can purchase my best-selling book on family scapegoating abuse (FSA), 'Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed', on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3sEaqcx. Or buy from your favorite online book retailer via this secure Universal Buy Link (UBL): https://books2read.com/intro2fsa. 0:00 - Intro 01:18 - Family Scapegoating Abuse (FSA) and Trauma Responses 02:16 - About Betrayal Trauma Theory (BTT) - Dr Jennifer Freyd (1994) 05:09 - How FSA Adult Survivors experience Betrayal Trauma 06:38 - How Trauma leads to Dissociation 10:14: - Feeling unsafe and unprotected within a hostile family system 11:58 - The FSA adult survivor and Toxic Shame 13:13 - When your trauma response is 'Fight' 15:10 - The relational consequences of having your trust betrayed by family 17:23 - Recovery from FSA IS possible! 🔥Trigger Warning: If you feel activated watching this video, turn it off and perhaps return to it at another time or consult a licensed Mental Health professional. Viewer comments may contain descriptions of child abuse and neglect and can also be activating. 💡Rebecca C. Mandeville is a thought leader and recognized expert in abusive family systems. She is also the author of 'Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed: Help and Hope for Adults in the Family Scapegoat Role' and a clinical expert in YouTube's Health Partner Program. 💡Learn more about my work on FSA, my book, and my FSA recovery coaching services, visit https://scapegoatrecovery.com. 💡 INTERNATIONAL SINGLE-SESSION SCAPEGOAT RECOVERY VIDEO CONSULTATIONS: Due to the prohibitive length of my waiting list for weekly sessions, I am now offering Single-Session Consultations. Learn more by visiting https://www.scapegoatrecovery.com/sca... 💡DISCLAIMER ONE: This channel's focus is on understanding and recovering from what I named 'family scapegoating abuse' (FSA) and is GENERAL and INFORMATIONAL in its scope. It is NOT a substitute for clinical assessment or treatment. It is suitable for both Adult Survivors and Clinicians. I am unable to advise you on your specific family situation. READ FULL DISCLAIMER: https://www.scapegoatrecovery.com/you... ✅ Subscribe to this YouTube channel. Tap the white bell to be notified of of my latest free video offering:    / @beyondfamilyscapegoatingabuse   ✅ Check out more of my videos on FSA:    • DYSFUNCTIONAL Family Scapegoating Abuse (F...   🥰 FSA YouTube Community Page:    / @beyondfamilyscapegoatingabuse   💡DISCLAIMER TWO: Some of these links go to website and some are affiliate links where I'll earn a small commission if you make a purchase at no additional cost to you. =============================================================================== ✅ For media inquiries contact me at [email protected] =============================================================================== 🔥 COPYRIGHT NOTICE: My videos focus exclusively on understanding and recovering from what I named 'family scapegoating abuse' (FSA) during the course of my academic and clinical research. THESE VIDEOS ARE COPYRIGHTED AND CANNOT BE SAMPLED AND USED FOR OTHER PURPOSES. =============================================================================== 🔴 NEED HELP NOW? Being scapegoating can be extremely traumatizing. If you feel in danger of harming yourself, this is a list of international hotlines where you can speak to someone: https://blog.opencounseling.com/suici... You might also find some appropriate resources here via this site for people struggling with complex trauma symptoms due to personality disordered parenting, etc. https://outofthefog.website/toolbox-1... =============================================================================== Copyright 2023 | Rebecca C. Mandeville | All Rights Reserved #scapegoat #betrayaltrauma #narcissisticabusesurvivor