A PIOR NOTÍCIA QUE RECEBI FOI SABER QUE MEU FILHO TIROU A PRÓPRIA VIDA | Histórias de ter.a.pia #230

Buy the book by therapist "The story of others changes us" and be moved by the stories: https://amzn.to/3CGZkc5 Cristina never imagined that the last time she would see her son alive would be the day he looked back while getting on the bus to São Paulo. A few weeks later, Denis took his own life after years of battling deep depression. Cris and Denis had always had a very close relationship, and so, when the boy was a teenager, she began to notice that his behavior was starting to change, becoming increasingly introspective. As a single mother, Cris did everything she could to pay for psychological and psychiatric treatment for her son, who showed signs of improvement over time and had his depression stabilized for a few years. But the pandemic came in 2020 and this greatly affected Denis's condition, and social isolation greatly affected his treatment, which was "withering away", as Cris says. In 2021, things started to get back to normal and Denis was desperate to get a job. He was already over 20 at the time and wanted financial independence, like every young person. Denis got a job at a bank, but he would have to spend 3 months training and gaining experience in São Paulo. Cris was apprehensive, but supported him because she knew it was something very important to him. She was more comfortable letting him leave Ribeirão Preto also because Denis would stay at his father's house. This happened in February 2021. Denis was apparently fine at his father's house, at work, but in April the worst news Cristina could receive came: her ex-husband called and said he found her son dead at home. Denis had committed suicide. Cris's world went black with the news. How could she continue her life without her son? One day, on her way to work as automatically as she could, Cris turned on the car radio and an album by @pittyoficial started playing. This CD was Denis's, the first one he had asked Cris for as a gift years before. That moment, as mundane as it may seem, was a turning point in Cris's life. There she began to remember the beautiful story she had lived with her son, the love they had for each other and how he, wherever he was, wanted his mother to be well. From that moment on, she transformed her mourning into a fight and began to talk about suicide at work, especially. Cris is a civil servant in the State of São Paulo and knows that in her area the rate of people who take their own lives is very high. Talking about Denis's suicide, as contradictory as it may seem, began to ease the pain Cristina felt when she thought about his passing. Her son was not the way he left, he was much more than that. And this turning point that Cris had made her see life in color again. Would you like to watch the stories in advance and be part of the exclusive Whatsapp group? Support ter.a.pia http://apoia.se/historiasdeterapia - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - 💙 Did you like this story? ✍️ Leave your comment 📢 Share with friends 🕵 Visit our website http://historiasdeterapia.com