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Quick contact with the law firm: 📞 695 560 425 🌐 https://kancelaria-klisz.pl/ 📩[email protected] More information about divorce and division of property - ℹ️ https://rozwod-i-podzial-majatku.pl/ Divorce itself can be a difficult experience. According to research, it's one of the most stressful events in a person's life. However, divorcing a narcissist is a completely different story. It's not just the end of a relationship—it's a process that can destroy not only relationships but also self-esteem. That's why it's important to know what a narcissist will never do during a divorce, even if you strongly expect them to. Many people enter divorce believing that, despite everything, they can maintain a minimum of respect and common sense. That after years of living together, the other party will behave at least somewhat responsibly—especially when it comes to the children. Unfortunately, in the case of a narcissist, this is often an illusion that sooner or later leads to disappointment. In this video, I explain why divorcing a narcissist is different from a typical divorce, the mechanisms they employ, and what behaviors you can expect when you face them in court. Knowing how a narcissist operates allows you to navigate this difficult stage with calm and a well-prepared strategy. 🔹 1. A narcissist won't admit mistakes Even if you have clear evidence of their behavior—recordings, messages, witnesses—you'll be told you're exaggerating, misinterpreting the facts, and that "everything looked different." This isn't stubbornness or shame. It's a defense of their self-image. A narcissist doesn't allow themselves to feel guilt, because admitting a mistake means losing control. This is precisely why they use gaslighting—undermining your memory and sound judgment. Their goal isn't the truth, but domination over emotions and narratives. So don't expect apologies or reflection—in court, consistency and pointing out a recurring pattern of behavior are key. 🔹 2. A narcissist won't shy away from manipulation For a narcissist, divorce isn't a conversation, but a duel. In court, they often present themselves as the victim, presenting the relationship in reverse proportions, attributing to you behaviors they themselves have engaged in for years. This is typical projection—projecting their own traits onto you. They may involve others in their narrative—friends, family, and even children. Psychologists call such individuals "flying monkeys"—they don't always consciously support the narcissist, believing their story, as it is told with such certainty. 🔹 3. A narcissist won't be guided by the children's best interests For a narcissist, children aren't separate, vulnerable beings. They are tools for gaining advantage. They may try to influence their emotions, cast themselves as the "mistreated parent," and talk about things the child shouldn't hear: money, child support, blame for the divorce. This is a difficult experience, especially when you see that the child is starting to believe their narrative. Therefore, in a divorce with a narcissist, consciously protecting the children—both legally and emotionally—is crucial. 🔹 4. A Narcissist Won't Negotiate Fairly A narcissist may say, "We'll come to an agreement," but only if everything goes their way. They treat compromise as a failure and may sabotage negotiations or mediation—sometimes changing arrangements at the last minute just to maintain control. In mediation, they often try to manipulate the mediator, and when they don't gain support, they immediately question their competence. 🔹 5. A Narcissist Doesn't Respect Authority A judge, an expert witness, a mediator—for a narcissist, these aren't experts, but obstacles to be avoided or ridiculed. If a decision doesn't go their way, it's "biased." If a psychologist's opinion doesn't agree with their version, "the psychologist doesn't know what they're talking about." This is another element in the fight for control. 💬 What does this mean? You won't change their behavior, but you can change your strategy. When you stop expecting honesty, apologies, or logic, you regain composure. You act consistently, without emotional reactions—and this is the most uncomfortable thing for a narcissist. Strength in this matter doesn't come from shouting, but from awareness and stability. Table of Contents: 00:00 Introduction 01:44 Firstly: a narcissist will not admit to mistakes 03:05 Secondly: a narcissist will not shy away from dirty tricks 05:36 Thirdly: a narcissist will not be guided by the best interests of the children 06:37 Fourthly: a narcissist will not be willing to engage in genuine negotiations 07:34 Fifthly: a narcissist will not respect authority Attorney Iwo Klisz and Partners - Law Firm in Wrocław Address: ul. Kazimierza Wielkiego 1, 50-077 Wrocław Phone: 71 740 50 00 Firm Branches: POZNAŃ - ul. Dominikańska 7/4 KATOWICE - ul. Sobieskiego 27/30 GDAŃSK - ul. Kartuska 31c/1 WARSAW - Zamieniecka Street 62/64...