But They’re Your Blood, That’s How Survivors Stay Silent.- Sury Fish LCSW - S2 EP5
Sury Fish is a licensed counselor and social worker who specializes in psychotherapy and psychodrama. She works closely with survivors of family trauma and abuse, guiding them with compassion and depth. Her approach helps people not only find strength after pain but learn how to create light within the tunnel itself. 0:00 – Intro: The hidden trauma of inc*st 2:24 – Meet Sury Fish – Therapist specializing in incest survivors 3:03 – How common is this really? (It’s in every community) 5:59 – What drives abusers? Control, addiction, opportunity & family secrecy 8:36 – When the protector becomes the abuser – The core wound 12:20 – Living with constant triggers: Family = trauma source 17:22 – Shame, privacy vs. secrecy – Why survivors carry the shame 21:32 – Family denial & protecting the abuser instead of the child 26:50 – The body keeps the score – Physical & chronic illness links 30:32 – Boys vs. girls, men vs. women abusers – The differences 38:27 – Betrayal trauma & spiritual wounding 41:15 – The lies abusers tell & the lies survivors tell themselves 43:47 – Intro to Psychodrama – What it actually is 50:18 – Live psychodrama demo (positive role-reversal with father/daughter) 55:25 – How psychodrama heals betrayal, shame & lost connection to Hashem 1:00:28 – Why survivors speak out – Breaking the silence is the medicine 1:06:15 – Can you ever fully heal? (The honest answer) 1:09:40 – Intimacy, marriage & healing as a couple 1:16:08 – Forgiveness: Necessary or not? 1:21:02 – Message to families in denial who choose the abuser over the child 1:24:23 – Final message to survivors: You are not broken. Healing is real. This episode is sponsored by Candid Recruits Phone - 845-828-9210 Email - [email protected] What’s app - https://chat.whatsapp.com/J28sXGLfkfL... Job Opportunities https://chat.whatsapp.com/J28sXGLfkfL... This episode is sponsored by Azure Poconos Mansion Phone -845-558-7280 Follow us on Socials for More Content: Subscribe on YouTube - / @thestruggle.podcast Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/thestruggle... Instagram- / narcissistic_torture Spotify -https://open.spotify.com/show/44tgKK9... Apple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... To Reach Me (Joe Farkas) Phone: 845-420-7227 Email: [email protected] To Reach Sury Fish,LCSW 845-376-5544 [email protected] #FamilyTrauma #HealingJourney #SurvivorStories #TraumaRecovery #MentalHealthAwareness #Psychotherapy #Psychodrama #BreakingTheSilence #EmotionalHealing #TraumaInformed #TheStrugglePodcast #FindingStrength

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