100万部に迫るベストセラー『なぜ生きる』(高森顕徹先生監修)

I've included a link to Amazon. Please check it out if you're interested! www.amazon.co.jp/dp/4925253018 --- The "80/50 problem" has been gaining attention in the media. "80/50" refers to an 80-year-old parent and a 50-year-old child. When we hear the words "NEET" (neet) or "hikikomori," we tend to imagine young people in their 20s, but in Japan today, there are hundreds of thousands of hikikomori in their 40s, and they will soon be in their 50s. By that time, their parents will already be in their 80s. In other words, parents in their 80s are left to care for their children in their 50s. This is the "80/50 problem," one of Japan's social issues as the country faces a super-aging society. Parents must work to support their children, even though they themselves are approaching the age when they need care. Coming home exhausted after a day's work, only to find their 50-year-old children lounging around the house. Seeing this makes parents angry, and they can't help but worry about their child. "It's fine as long as I can still work, but what would happen to my child if I were to be hospitalized or die?" Worrying and angry about their son, they find every day difficult, and they wish they could just die. But they cannot die alone and leave their son behind, so they live in agony. But what about their child? In fact, they are suffering even more than their parents. They worry that they are a social misfit. Even if they go out into the world and find a job, they won't last long. They think that no matter what they do from now on, it will all be no good, that they would be better off dead, and that they are only causing trouble for their parents, and that it would be better if they didn't exist. They try to escape reality by playing games and watching TV, but they find no joy in living anywhere. The parent also "want to die." The child also "want to die." Parents are consumed with the idea of ​​killing their children and then dying themselves, while children are consumed with the idea of ​​causing some major incident and then dying themselves. These pent-up feelings came to the surface in the Kawasaki massacre of 20 people and the murder of the former Vice-Minister of Agriculture, Forestry and Fisheries. "What was the purpose of my life?" "Why do I live?" "Why do I have to live when it's so painful?" In the Reiwa era, recent incidents suggest that these questions will weigh ever more heavily on humanity. ----------------------------------------------------------------- Click here for the official "Understanding Buddhism" LINE. ----------------------------------------------------------------- ・Video and column updates ・Mini-sections explaining Buddhist terminology in simple terms ・LINE friend-only events, etc. ▼Click here for the official "Understanding Buddhism" LINE. https://lin.ee/GbzwYBX ----------------------------------------------------------------- Click here for the 20-part free email course. ----------------------------------------------------------------- https://peraichi.com/landing_pages/vi... ↑The free email course reveals the answer to the "meaning of life" taught in Buddhism. Register and receive a bonus booklet, "Five Common Misconceptions That Keep You from Being Happy!" ----------------------------------------------------------------- Subscribe to my YouTube channel here -----------------------------------------------------------------    / @bybuddhism   ----------------------------------------------------------------- A community where you can ask Ryuta Kikutani questions "Reiwa Gobo" ----------------------------------------------------------------- https://reiwagobou.com/ ----------------------------------------------------------------- About me ----------------------------------------------------------------- Dropped out of Waseda University in 1988 to pursue a career as a Buddhist lecturer. Received a Buddhist lecturer certification from the Jodo Shinshu Shinrankai sect and began giving public lectures across the country. Started an email newsletter in 2010, writing for one of the largest Buddhist newsletters with 12,000 subscribers. Since 2014, I have also been providing video lectures for online courses connecting the entire nation. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Gift ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ◆Booklet "Five Common Misconceptions That Keep You From Being Happy" https://kikutaniryuta.com/gift/017/in...

『おかしな人類』人間のここが一番バカなところ【仏教の教え】
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『おかしな人類』人間のここが一番バカなところ【仏教の教え】

生きるとは何か―仏陀・ソクラテス・ニーチェ…人はなぜ生きるのかを問い続けた思想家たち―哲学・仏教・東洋思想でたどる“人生の本質”|【睡眠導入用解説】善く生きること/幸福論/生の肯定/生の空虚
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生きるとは何か―仏陀・ソクラテス・ニーチェ…人はなぜ生きるのかを問い続けた思想家たち―哲学・仏教・東洋思想でたどる“人生の本質”|【睡眠導入用解説】善く生きること/幸福論/生の肯定/生の空虚

不安地獄を終わらせる「あるがまま」という境地 | 20年不安に苦しんだ人が一夜で変わった話
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不安地獄を終わらせる「あるがまま」という境地 | 20年不安に苦しんだ人が一夜で変わった話

人生の目的は『歎異抄』に
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人生の目的は『歎異抄』に

【総集編】人はなぜ生きるのか - 60歳からの人生の真の目的と意義【出口王仁三郎】魂の使命 | 霊界 | 言霊 | 霊性 | 大本教 | みろくの世 | 感謝 | 無条件の愛 | 霊主体従
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【総集編】人はなぜ生きるのか - 60歳からの人生の真の目的と意義【出口王仁三郎】魂の使命 | 霊界 | 言霊 | 霊性 | 大本教 | みろくの世 | 感謝 | 無条件の愛 | 霊主体従

【笑い飯・哲夫さん】から学ぶ「仏教」の奥深い世界!“嫉妬”“執着”“煩悩”“怒り”から解放される凄まじい思考とは?ゲストを招いてトークする新企画始動!【渦の細道①】
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【笑い飯・哲夫さん】から学ぶ「仏教」の奥深い世界!“嫉妬”“執着”“煩悩”“怒り”から解放される凄まじい思考とは?ゲストを招いてトークする新企画始動!【渦の細道①】

Happiness that transcends both mind and words: Two kinds of profound faith
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Happiness that transcends both mind and words: Two kinds of profound faith

道元が泣いた夜——「正法眼蔵」に隠された、一つの問い|やさしい仏教
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道元が泣いた夜——「正法眼蔵」に隠された、一つの問い|やさしい仏教

Why Live, Even When It's Difficult? | A Philosophy for Finding Joy in a Life That Doesn't Go as P...
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Why Live, Even When It's Difficult? | A Philosophy for Finding Joy in a Life That Doesn't Go as P...

Letting go of three things from the past will make your life surprisingly lighter [Buddhist teach...
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Letting go of three things from the past will make your life surprisingly lighter [Buddhist teach...

Common characteristics of people whose lives are spiraling downwards, and how to escape this fate...
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Common characteristics of people whose lives are spiraling downwards, and how to escape this fate...

「生きる意味が見つからない」という人の99%が見えていないもの
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「生きる意味が見つからない」という人の99%が見えていないもの

"If I could go back to my 50s, I would live like this" - Turning points in life that are understo...
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"If I could go back to my 50s, I would live like this" - Turning points in life that are understo...

The shocking reason why Honganji Temple split into East and West [Jodo Shinshu Sermon]
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The shocking reason why Honganji Temple split into East and West [Jodo Shinshu Sermon]

瀬戸内寂聴さん(99)死去 対談で語っていた「生きる意味」【news23】
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瀬戸内寂聴さん(99)死去 対談で語っていた「生きる意味」【news23】

生きる意味とは何か | 現代人に愛される天才哲学者【ニーチェの生涯】
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生きる意味とは何か | 現代人に愛される天才哲学者【ニーチェの生涯】

【親鸞聖人ご生誕850周年】たくさんの仏教宗派がある中でなぜ「親鸞聖人の教え」なのか?(前半)
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【親鸞聖人ご生誕850周年】たくさんの仏教宗派がある中でなぜ「親鸞聖人の教え」なのか?(前半)

【矢作直樹】亡くなった人が家族へ伝えている3つのメッセージ|死後の世界|あの世|魂|意識
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【矢作直樹】亡くなった人が家族へ伝えている3つのメッセージ|死後の世界|あの世|魂|意識

Buddha's "Money School" [Anxious wealthy people]
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Buddha's "Money School" [Anxious wealthy people]

Signs of an Immature Adult: How to Spot Them [Buddhist Teachings]
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Signs of an Immature Adult: How to Spot Them [Buddhist Teachings]