The Truth About Gay Attractiveness: Tips For Older Gay Men 5 26 2026

Hey y’all, Joefer here, The Cranky Old Gay Guy. Today I’m talking about what makes us gay men more attractive, and no, it’s not just about looks. I'll be giving you several ways that you, as an older gay man, can make yourself more attractive to others. I'll be covering kindness, confidence, grooming, and how we treat people, especially those in service jobs. I’ve learned the hard way that being rude is the fastest way to look ugly. So, be polite, listen, and walk your talk. Grooming is important, if possible, wear clothes that fit and highlight what you love about your body, and most of all, be genuine. That’s what makes any man, especially us older gay guys, truly attractive. "Stay Cranky My Friends! Stay Cranky." ***** If you like what I'm doing, I'm also on "Buy Me a Coffee." ☕ It's an easy way to show your support if you like this channel. https://buymeacoffee.com/crankyoldgv ***** Need advice? Send your advice questions (or "other" things😉) to: [email protected]⁩ ***** Thumbnail image by Joefer & M.S. Copilot ***** You can find some of my art work 👨‍🎨 on Instagram using handle joeferartspdx I also post links to this youtube channel on X under The Cranky Old Gay Guy Show ***** Joefer, The Cranky Old Gay Guy (that's me!) wrote a book. It's a folksy bit of Americana about a mother reaching out to her gay, and distant, son. Told through a series of letters, the book is fictional, but still a very realistic portrayal of a west Texas mother's feelings, emotional struggles, and faith, in the turbulent 1970's. It will move you and stir your emotions. "35 Letters: Letters From a Mother to Her Son" by Joseph L. Ferguson. Now available on Amazon in all formats. It's a touching tale that you will love! (This Book might very well have you in tears). It Makes a Great Gift !!! https://a.co/d/0i0ZriKt **** NEED HELP? **** Feeling lost or alone? Frantic? Manic? There is help. Call or Text or Chat the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline 988. Hours are available 24/7 and the cost is free. OR Text HOME to 741741 to reach a trained Crisis Counselor through Crisis Text Line, a global not-for-profit organization. Free, 24/7, confidential.