【EP14】Words shape children — Your voice is more powerful than you think. 語言塑造孩子 ｜ 你的話，比你想像中更有力量！

Have you ever said something to your child — and immediately wished you could take it back? Maybe it slipped out when you were tired. Frustrated. At the end of your rope. "Why are you so difficult?" "Can't you just listen for once?" "Why can't you be more like your brother?" We've all been there. And most of the time, we move on and forget we even said it. But here's the thing — our kids don't forget. Those words stick. They replay. And over time, without either of you realising it, your child starts to build their entire sense of self around the things you casually said on a Tuesday morning when you were just trying to get everyone out the door. That's how powerful your voice is. And the good news? It works the other way too. The same words that can quietly chip away at a child's confidence — can also quietly build it back up. One small shift in how you speak — and everything starts to feel different. 可能是累的時候。可能是被惹毛的時候。可能只是一個普通的早上，趕著出門，然後就脫口而出—— 「你怎麼這麼難搞？」 「你可不可以聽一次話？」 「你為什麼不能像你哥哥一樣？」 說完了，我們繼續過日子，可能連自己說過什麼都忘了。 但孩子沒有忘。 那些話留下來了，一遍一遍在他心裡重播。慢慢地，在你們都不知道的情況下，孩子開始用你隨口說的那些話，來定義自己是一個什麼樣的人。 這就是你的聲音力量。 但好消息是，它是雙向的！同樣可以悄悄傷害孩子自信的語言，也可以悄悄把它建立回來。只需要一個小小的說話方式的改變——感覺就會完全不一樣。 Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE Collab & Share your story: [email protected] #parentsdaily  #LittleLeapsBigDiscoveries #小小跨步大大發現