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#Siblings #FamilyPsychology #Psychology #HumanRelationships There are five reasons revealed by psychology why siblings become strangers as we get older. Did you perhaps only exchange a couple of words with your siblings during the last holidays? If that bothered you, this video will be helpful. Here are the five reasons covered in this video: The loss of stories to share as life paths diverge Old scars left by parental favoritism The variable of a spouse coming between siblings Relationships crumbling in the face of caregiving, inheritance, and money The brain's design that sorts out relationships based on calculated remaining time Siblings becoming strangers is not because you are heartless. It is a very natural occurrence that happens to everyone. From favoritism studies at Purdue and Cornell, to theories by Laura Carstensen's research team at Stanford, and even Professor White's study tracking approximately 9,000 people, I will explain by examining the evidence one by one. And at the end of the video, unexpected comfort regarding sibling relationships awaits. If you watch until the end, the guilt you feel for neglecting your siblings will feel much lighter. ▶ Chapters 00:00 The Silence That Repeats Every Holiday 00:41 First, The Worlds We Live In Are Divided 03:00 Siblings: It Is a Matter of Position, Not Heart 03:59 Second, The Scars of Favoritism Left by Old Dinner Tables 06:48 Favoritism Leaves Scars on Everyone 08:26 Third, The Spouse Who Caught Between Siblings 11:41 Fourth, Relationships That Crumb Before Money 15:21 Fifth, The Brain's Design for Organizing Relationships 18:28 Reflecting on the Five Points 19:34 Three Things You Must Take Care of Today 20:48 Siblings Become Closer Again