The One Thing I Did That Saved My Marriage (It Wasn’t Couples Therapy)

DM me the word PIES for a chance to have your question read!   / kimberlybeamholmes   You can't change your spouse. You can't change your circumstances. But you can change you. And it turns out that's the only thing that ever actually works. A few years ago, I was working 100-hour weeks. My marriage was falling apart. And one morning I ended up on my bathroom floor after another fight, thinking, "I can't do this anymore." That was the day everything shifted. Not because I walked away. Because I finally stopped waiting for everyone else to change and started with me. This is the very first episode of The Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes Show. And I'm handing you the exact framework I used that morning and still use today. It's called the PIES. Physical. Intellectual. Emotional. Spiritual. The four areas of your life you actually get to control. The place the love path begins. I break down what each one really means, how to take honest stock of yours right now, and why becoming your best self is only the start of falling back in love. Then we get into your questions. A woman married 41 years who's never been in love. A separated spouse wondering why anyone would ever come back. A husband asking whether God changes hearts. We open up 1 Samuel 15 together. We survive the hot seat. And I give you your very first challenge of the week. This is just the beginning. Stay strong. Click here to apply to work directly with myself and Dr. Joe: https://bit.ly/4b2PwKw #thewayyoushowup