【回避傾向・回避依存】自分を生きることから逃げる。失敗、責任、批判、恥、人を傷つける恐れなどを最優先にして人生が停滞する

Hello, good evening. This is Kii. This time, we talked about "avoidance tendencies - the habit of running away". Some people "had no choice" because of their rigid education, shocking experiences, or nature. It's not "not good if even a little bit applies to you". Look at how often and how strongly it applies to you. I hope this will be helpful for self-awareness and for looking at reality objectively. 00:00 Opening 01:23 Examples and characteristics of avoidance 10:25 What did you think? 11:26 Patterns of running away by moving 16:35 Improvement and countermeasures 22:05 Summary ★Talk after recording    • 【白黒二択じゃない現実】自分の都合に合わない事実を受け入れる力。そして感情を大切にし...   My first goal is to post videos on one theme per week. Please support me by liking and subscribing♪ -------- 🙌Petit sharing to make YouTube a safe and fun place🙌 A Google account is required to like and subscribe YouTube likes are set up so that neither the sender nor the viewer knows who pressed them⚪︎ Don't worry if you're worried about your private life being seen (The same goes for likes on comments; neither the other person nor I know who likes them) Only I can see the account name when subscribing Account names are publicly displayed in the comments section, so if you use your real name, we recommend changing it ※ Please refrain from replying to advice for others here ※ Please also refrain from asking for individual advice If you want to send your thoughts but don't want to do it in the comments, please send them to the official LINE! (Only I can read the official LINE. The link is below) -------- Finally, Each person lives in a background and circumstances that only they know. With limited space and time, we can't provide the perfect information and consideration for everyone, but we hope that our posts will be a little bit of a companion to your daily life. -- Summary of current activities - 📙 Books 🆕 "A book that will ease your tired mind" Ousama Bunko 🆕 https://amzn.asia/d/buOgNJS "Say goodbye to your tired mind" KADOKAWA https://amazon.co.jp/dp/4048966235 "Start by saying 'I love myself'" Yamato Publishing https://www.amazon.co.jp/dp/4804762876 🌉 Receive individual consultation and support http://ikiyasu.com/2024/ 02/01/personalsupport/ 📱SNS related ・Instagram   / kiitanuma   ・X   / kiitanuma_tanu   ・Threads https://www.threads.net/@kiitanuma ・Official Line https://lin.ee/43vkdy6 (I read venting and messages) Next video: Next Wednesday evening-night update ☺️ Thank you for your hard work today. Thank you as always. ーーーーーーーーーーーー #relationships #stress #psychology #self-esteem #work #love #communication #avoidance