How to Disarm a Criticism That Feels Wrong

Can you still use the Disarming Technique if someone’s criticism isn’t true? In this video, Dr. David Burns and therapist Adam Holman answer the most common—and challenging—questions about the Disarming Technique, one of the Five Secrets of Effective Communication. Through real-life examples, humor, and role plays, they explore: • What to do when a criticism feels unfair • Can skillful disarming still fail? • Why agreeing—genuinely—can open the door to an amazing connection This technique isn't about losing or failure. It's about curiosity, humility, and choosing warmth over ego—especially when it’s the hardest thing to do. 🎥 This is Part 1.5 of our Five Secrets mini-series 📘 Based on Feeling Good Together by Dr. David Burns 📲 Practice the technique in the Feeling Great app: https://feelinggreat.app.link/xJybmHZ... 🔔 Subscribe for the full series: ‪@FeelingGreatApp‬ ABOUT THE “FEELING GREAT” APP 😊 Feeling Great is a new mobile app inspired by the groundbreaking work of world-renowned psychiatrist and author, Dr. David Burns. Combining the power of our AI chatbot with awesome interactive classes and lessons, the app guides you through a transformative journey toward enhanced self-esteem and emotional well-being. ABOUT DR. BURNS 👨‍⚕️ Author of the best-selling book Feeling Good, the #1 recommended book by mental health professionals for individuals struggling with depression and anxiety. — FOLLOW US 🤳 Stay connected with us on social media: IG:   / feelinggreatapp   TikTok:   / feelinggreatapp   Facebook:   / feelinggreatapp   LinkedIn:   / feeling-great-app   — DISCLAIMER: Content on this channel and the Feeling Great app is not meant to replace professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult your doctor or a healthcare provider with any physical or mental health questions. In case of an emergency, contact emergency services right away. #communicationskills #parentingjourney #cbt #therapist #familyconflicts #selfhelp