221. When Love Feels Far Away - Enneagram Wisdom for Estrangement with Jackie Contessa

What if personal growth doesn’t mean becoming someone new, but learning to stay steady in who you already are? This week, Mandy sits down with Jackie Contessa, certified Enneagram coach and founder of Table for 9 Coaching, to talk about how the Enneagram offers stability through the ever-changing landscape of life and relationships. Jackie shares her story of discovering the Enneagram after years of loss and transformation, and how it’s helped her make sense of the patterns that surface in seasons of estrangement — where connection and distance coexist. Together, they explore what it means to change and stay the same, how self-awareness supports healing when relationships shift, and how compassion becomes the anchor when understanding feels out of reach. Links + Resources from this episode: • Connect with Jackie! (https://tablefor9coaching.com/) • Connect with Mandy! (  / mandycapehart  ) • Become a Patron! (  / mandycapehart  ) • Learn more about Restorative Grief Coaching (https://www.mandycapehart.com/coaching)