What expat men reveal about themselves when they talk about Dutch dating

1:1 free call — https://calendly.com/taniabozheva/coa... My coaching services — https://www.taniabozheva.com FREE RESOURCES: • Find out why life abroad feels heavy — https://mailchi.mp/e2d20d2ae762/fz5z9... • Discover the pattern you keep repeating in love — https://mailchi.mp/5d4202ebd9e7/qoqnu... I went through the comments on my Dutch dating videos and I couldn't just leave them there. Because of what's underneath them: the defensiveness, the frustration, the person trying to decode someone who already told them they're not available. In this video I read 7 real comments out loud and respond to them the way I do with clients: not to judge but to ask what's actually being said. Some are about Dutch women. Some are about vulnerability and why showing weakness feels like a death sentence. Some are about that "spark" we chase and whether it's attraction or just a familiar wound. One is from someone trying to win over a man who already said he's not looking for love. None of it is really about the Netherlands. If something lands, sit with it. That's usually where the real work starts. 🔥 Let's reach 10k subscribers together —    / @theselfishcodependent   📔 Goal-setting planner I created — etsy.me/3A9aJjl 💌 Let's connect on Instagram:   / theselfishcodependent   📨 PR: [email protected] 👉 Watch my other videos: 5 reasons intelligent men struggle in dating —    • 5 reasons intelligent men struggle with da...   The pattern in Dutch dating I cannot unsee —    • The pattern about Dutch dating I couldn't see   Surrounded by idiots in the Netherlands —    • The real reason Dutch people seem weird to...   Contents: 00:00 Intro 00:22 Should men be vulnerable with women 01:52 Will she 'surrender' if she is really interested? 03:55 Does spark matter? 04:53 Dutch women play games 05:34 Is he a complicated man? 07:22 Expats in relationships 08:35 Foreign men are advanturous 09:44 i'm leaving you with... #thenetherlands #dutch #nederland #expats #livingabroad #immigration