«Если бы я не убежала, он бы меня УБ*Л...» — История одного развода

Sign up for a consultation: https://tutushkina.taplink.ws/ Link to my Telegram channel: https://t.me/tutushina If you'd like to share your story and be featured in our next episode, please contact my PR department on Telegram: https://t.me/tutushkinateam This episode tells the frank story of divorce and recovery from an abusive relationship. The protagonist explains how jealousy, alcohol, and control gradually turned into aggression and beatings, how she ran away to her sister's house one night and ended up in the hospital with head injuries, and then why the case was "lost," postponed, and how publicity helped move things forward. Timecodes: 00:00 What is this episode about? 01:21 Injuries after a beating and running away from home 02:37 "Ran barefoot down the stairs of a nine-story building" 03:50 A night at my sister's: calls, threats, and how I managed to get into the building 07:02 Aggression and beatings before: alcohol, humiliation 09:17 Why didn't I leave the relationship? 13:02 Support from colleagues: who did I tell, and what helped? 13:40 Conflict with sister, relationship and marriage timeline (no children) 14:45 After the beating, he begs for forgiveness: flowers, promises 15:29 Parents' arrival: cleaning the apartment, husband's things, his mother's reaction 17:43 Threats and money: demands to "return the budget," pressure on parents 21:20 New attack on December 31: breathing, threats with a gun 22:56 Threats from Turkey: hacking social media, deleting posts, intimidation 25:48 Detention at customs upon arrival: 3-4 hour inspection 26:55 False drug report: number found, police report 27:32 Reopening of the case: Article 115, decision to make the story public 28:29 Abuser's response: lies, insults, attempts to discredit 29:47 Legal red tape: postponements, Confusion, "the case was found in the archives" 31:27 "There is a suspicion that he bribed the judge" 34:02 How he changed: "he was different before the relationship," increasing aggression and alcohol 36:09 A proposal at night and a quick marriage 37:36 The abuser's mother: from support to her son's side, an insulting letter 40:25 The trial and accusations from the mother: pressure and humiliation 41:14 Vadim's past relationships: his ex-wife with their child, other cases 42:45 "Not the only one": stories of other women about beatings 43:41 He still works as a trainer/masseuse: why he isn't fired 44:50 The importance of documents: receipts, papers, and evidence of moral damages 45:45 Problems with bailiffs: no property, no official salary 48:38 New threats after going public 51:13 A turning point: publicity and family support Removed the fear 52:21 New life and healthy relationships 54:18 An appeal to women: how to save yourself and why you can't tolerate it 55:18 The finale