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Telegram — https://t.me/Alexmitova For collaboration, ideas, and advertising: [email protected] In the first episode, we're talking about domestic violence. Anna shared her story of being a victim of abuse and violence at the hands of a man. We also learned from psychologists about ways to avoid similar situations. If you have experienced domestic violence and need help: 1. Blagie Deeds Charitable Foundation — www.blagie-dela.ru 2. TyNeOdna Project — Provides psychological support and runs support groups with other women — https://tineodna.ru/ 3. Women's Crisis Center — provides psychological and legal assistance to female victims and witnesses of violence — https://crisiscenter.ru/ 4. Sisters Center — a support center for survivors of sexualized violence and their loved ones — https://sisters-help.ru/ Sandra on other social media: Instagram*   / sandra.mitova   Telegram: https://t.me/Alexmitova *Instagram is owned by Meta, a company recognized as an extremist organization and banned in the Russian Federation 00:00 start 2:20 What is this podcast about? 2:31 Domestic violence statistics 2:52 Meeting a psychologist from the "Good Deeds" foundation 3:26 How to recognize domestic violence? What are the signs? 4:16 Meeting the heroine, Anna, who survived violence 5:22 Meeting the founder of the "Good Deeds" charity foundation 5:55 What kind of women come to you? "We've even had the wives of very high-ranking people." 6:42 How Anna met the perpetrator of violence. "Anya, can I have your number?" 9:26 Developments "We corresponded constantly, and through our correspondence, he learned my weaknesses and the most important aspects of my life and pressed them." 10:40 "Psychopaths make a very good impression on everyone." A psychologist's comments on how a woman feels around a psychopath 11:32 "Men come to us." The founder of the "Good Deeds" foundation talks about changes in the topic of domestic violence 12:30 Anna's first meeting with the perpetrator of violence. "He was already hinting at anal sex." 18:24 Why don't women leave their abusers? Phases or cycles of violence 19:04 What is the point of no return, when a woman decides to leave her abuser? "Women come, start working, and then there's a relapse." 20:34 Anna's story. An incident of first violence. "He kept saying, 'I'm the best man!'" 25:15 Anna and the abuser's trip to Kazan. "Some inner voice told me, 'Anya, stop!'" 28:28 "I thought we'd arrive, change, shower, and go for a walk." 29:09 "I came to, showered, and when I came out, he was already naked." 29:46 "I made up a story about being raped." 30:16 "He tied my hands with a robe belt and tied my head to his groin." 32:22 "It lasted a very long time, it was very painful, it was very rough." 32:44 Why didn't you leave him? What kept you going? 34:20 What is economic abuse? 35:58 Stories of women leaving the abuser of the "Good Deeds" foundation. 37:28 How abusers devalue their victims' feelings and thoughts. 38:49 How to recognize a psychopath? 39:46 "I lost contact with my parents, he told me, 'I'm your family now.'" 42:32 Consequences of a relationship with the perpetrator of violence 43:46 "He started beating me really badly." 45:33 "I remember sitting on the floor, completely blue, just praying." 47:24 "Now I'm going to go to bed, and you're supposed to sit on the couch. If you take even a step toward the room, I'll chop you up with an axe." 50:20 "I start yelling at him, 'Call me an ambulance!'" 54:11 Was the perpetrator of violence punished? 54:22 How the "Mama's House" email appeared in Kazan 57:06 Anna arrived with the police to the apartment where it all happened 57:23 Investigation footage from the apartment 57:36 What Anna looked like after that night 59:17 Anna's last conversation with the perpetrator of violence 1:01:26 Sentence for the perpetrator of violence 1:02:02 What is verbal violence? 1:04:20 Do girls who were abused by this person write to you? 1:05:55 Do you still have feelings for him? 1:07:00 Digital violence 1:08:42 How can you help a victim of violence? 1:09:37 The story of a woman's failed attempt to leave her abuser 1:11:08 The law on domestic violence 1:19:03 The physical and mental consequences of violence in the episode's heroine 1:21:02 How is the episode's heroine's life going now? 1:21:28 A plan to leave her abuser 1:26:03 The episode's heroine's message to all women #domesticviolence #abuse #psychology