How Your Father Wound Makes You Attracted to Emotionally Unavailable Men - Terri Cole

If you've ever wondered why you keep attracting the same emotionally unavailable type, this video will change everything. In this episode I explain the psychology behind ghosting, breadcrumbing, and why your nervous system is drawn to what's familiar, not what's healthy. Discover how childhood father wounds create core beliefs like "I'm not enough" and learn the exact steps to reparent yourself, set new standards, and finally choose partners who show up consistently. You deserve more than crumbs. 🔑 Unlock my membership: https://terricole.com/tcm 📚 Get my books: Boundary Boss Book: https://amzn.to/44DZID9 The Boundary Boss Workbook: https://amzn.to/3Ra7CRU Too Much: A Guide to Breaking the Cycle of High-Functioning Codependency: https://hfcbook.com 🪔 Meditate with me: Insight Timer: https://insig.ht/cpKnbJB4KDb (I have a bunch of free meditations on here and love this app!) Connect With Me 📸 Instagram: https://terricole.com/ig 📩 Newsletter: https://terricole.com/newsletter Time Stamps 0:00 - Introduction 1:47 - Defining Ghosting and Breadcrumbing 4:40 - Understanding Father Wound Blueprint 9:07 - Nervous System and Transference in Relationships 11:08 - The Repeating Patterns 13:49 - Breaking the Cycle - Practical Steps 17:25 - Conclusion and Call to Action If You Enjoyed This, Watch These Videos    • Father Wound 101 (Symptoms & Causes)  - Te...   - Father Wound 101 (Symptoms & Causes)    • How My Father Wound Impacted My Life + How...   - How My Father Wound Impacted My Life + How I Healed    • The Father Wound Impact on Relationships, ...   - The Father Wound Impact on Relationships, Career and Health    • How to Liberate Yourself From Over-Giving ...   - How to Liberate Yourself From Over-Giving + Over-Doing About Terri Cole Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist, global relationship and empowerment expert, and the author of Boundary Boss-The Essential Guide to Talk True, Be Seen and (Finally) Live Free, The Boundary Boss Workbook, and Too Much: A Guide to Breaking the Cycle of High-Functioning Codependency. For over two decades, Terri has worked with a diverse group of clients that includes everyone from stay-at-home moms to celebrities and Fortune 500 CEOs. She has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable so that clients and students achieve sustainable change. She inspires over a million people weekly through her blog, social media platform, signature courses, and her popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. For more, see https://www.terricole.com/ BetterHelp: https://betterhelp.com/terricole I’m not currently taking any new one-on-one therapy or coaching clients, but highly recommend using BetterHelp to find a therapist that fits your needs. As a team, we have fully vetted BetterHelp's resources. https://www.terricole.com/gethelp/ -- If you are in a crisis or any other person may be in danger, the resources on this page can provide you with immediate help. Please note: If you choose to sign up for BetterHelp or Insight Timer or buy through my Amazon links, I will receive a commission. Please know that I only recommend services and products that I know & trust. #relationshippatterns #emotionallyunavailable #datingpsychology #healingtrauma #fatherwound #relationship #datingadvice

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