После первого удара он сказал: «Помоги мне стать лучше»

Subscribe for your first week of using the online psychotherapy service PsyPsy. Use promo code neprinyato for a 1,500 ruble discount or 9 euros when paying from abroad: https://clck.ru/3LV87m Watch the episode on VKontakte: https://vk.com/video-227060346_456239... "After the first blow, he said, 'Help me become better.' And I believed it," says Ksenia Dushanova. What words do abusers use to make you fall in love? How can you tell if you're living with a maniac? And how did the woman in my interview go from her first slap to having her eye gouged out? This conversation with Ksenia Dushanova is meant to awaken you if you're being hurt in a relationship. According to the Consortium of Women's Non-Governmental Organizations, more than 70% of all murders of women in Russia in 2020–2021 were committed by their partners and relatives. Ksyusha's ex-lover broke her orbit, cheekbone, upper jaw, bridge of her nose, and arm. She suffered bruised ribs, a dislocated collarbone, and bruised liver, kidneys, and right lung. Ksenia's social media: Instagram*: ksusha_dushanova / https://www.instagram.com/ksusha_dush... Telegram channel: https://t.me/PR_Media_KD Olga's Telegram channel: https://t.me/+CwIWaK6alW8yOThi Timecodes: 00:00 In this episode 02:25 "I'm not a victim" 04:42 "I lost myself in my husband" 06:24 "I was convinced that love would never happen to me" 08:08 "I lived in a world where men protect women" 13:47 "I spent 5 months asking for help" 15:15 "I accepted that this is my destiny" 16:20 How can I support myself and my loved ones? 18:47 You feel alive. Why did Ksenia forgive the beatings? 24:25 "I'll fix him." About the savior syndrome 27:07 He's very caring. What's so appealing about abusers? 31:10 "Without me, you're nothing." Left without friends, a job, and money 35:09 "For me, there are no bad people" 39:24 "I really lived with a maniac" 40:47 "He sincerely tried to improve" 43:48 "I don't want to punish him" 48:53 Go public. What should you do if you're experiencing violence? 52:50 The hardest thing is to choose yourself 53:22 "He swore he wouldn't touch me again" 58:40 I went to bed and woke up in the hospital 01:00:38 How can I learn to trust people again? 01:02:40 If he hit you, leave. 01:10:50 You don't have to choose between love and money. Ksenia's interview about domestic violence: TV Extra channel:    • Чтобы прозреть, я потеряла один глаз: Исто...   Channel "About Me with Laura Stern":    • «Я его не первая жертва!»| Дело Рашида Мур...   Channel "Kosatkina":    • «Я решила, что не умру. Не сегодня» | Поли...   *** Social media of the "Not Accepted to Discuss" project: Yandex.Zen: https://dzen.ru/neprinyato?share_to=link VK: https://vk.com/neprinyatoo Olga Chebykina's Instagram*: olga_chebykina_ /   / olga_chebykina_   Thanks to the sponsor of this episode: TULUPOV Jewelry: https://tulupovv.com/?erid=2SDnjcbL6V3 #chebykina #nottodiscuss #psychology #relationships #interview